What's your thoughts on being in a relationship or marriage? Or maybe long term cohabitation with someone else that is not your family? I feel.. fear. Or maybe just a little bit dread, thinking about living with in-laws.
Well, you can just not live with them? I have many friends who do not live with their parents/ in laws. Only them and their other half and their children(if any). There are pros and cons and also depends on ur in laws. I’m currently living with my in laws and I can say that my in laws treat me really really good, just like how they treat their children which I truly appreciate and feel really lucky to have such wonderful in laws. And what more, cooking, laundry and even taking care of my son is all done by them. I only need to concentrate on working on weekdays and some simple housework on weekends like cleaning my bedroom and the living room.
Why not if I click with the person? Cohabitation is okay but marriage is something else. I choose to live with the person first before marrying. We gotta do a beta test yanno. And I don't have to live with the in-laws. I wouldn't like that.
What is there to fear. If you find out you don’t like them just leave or divorce them. Try not to over think it. For me personally I always wanted to be married. Some people dream of being a CEO or an astronaut. Me. I just wanted to find that girl in my dreams. She is wearing a white dress while she walks down a beautiful sandy beach. I believe living your life alone. You don’t realizing what’s missing. Everything seems normal, but when your in a relationship. You realize you were really missing something. And that is your other half of your heart. I'm a hopeless romantic. I believe your one true love is out there. Even if I fail over and over. She is worth finding
Wow, so lucky you got a really nice in laws right there seems like I still have to try living with my in laws before I try to live separately True, we really should try before knowing how compatible we're with our other half..
How cute I do want to find my other half. And I want it to be a once in a lifetime bond that we shared. But then, I found that I don't really have the courage to truly integrate my life to his family because our view is rather different. It makes me rather scared
I'm most worried about how the other person handles anger. Whether male or female, people will show their true colors when mad.
i think my biggest concerns are on the finding of somebody compatible. Anything after that can be worked on together.
The path with the most difficulties are usually the most rewarding. As I said before what’s the worse that could happen. You breakup. Even if that should happen. That will not stop true love. Love will bring you back together. Or lead you to your actual true love. If it’s meant to be. It’s meant to be. Nothing will stop it. Love is a leap of faith. There are no guarantee in Love. You have to trust that love will overcome. There is no perfect love. A relationship is as good as you make it. So make it legendary. A love that will be remembered. A love that makes you fall in love all over again. A love to thank the heavens for being so lucky
I don't want to get married. Even cohabiting with someone is a pain in the ass. Why you wanna cuck yourself?
If you wanna live wiht that person go ahead. I, personally, like being alone in a room and watching videos. I dont like having to make sure someones gonna take out the trash or not.
Relationships never work out for me, much less marriage. Marriage scares me. I'm in that "rich" solo point in life: fairly young and single with a job. I don't want to think about stuff like those. As for living with in-laws, thought never really popped up before. But honestly, it just depends on my relationship with my in-laws. If they're nice and welcoming, cool; if they're cold and unwelcoming, not cool. doSimple as that.
It will definitely be annoying at first but once done and finished, it will probably be more convenient for both parties. Housework is too much of a pain to be done alone.