Should I be concerned that my co-workers actually see me as sinister inside ? Lmao I just knew about their thoughts yesterday. They were gossiping about how I talk so gently and appear so kind. It was fine until one of them said, "Be careful around her, she's psycho." Lmao I wanted to laugh so hard. I was trying so hard not to be found out. I cannot believe these kinds of moments actually existed irl and I even experienced it. I'm kind through and through. I don't know where these people get these ideas from. Did something similar ever happened to you guys? I need comrades who feel me on this one lol
I don’t interact with people enough for them to form more than just a surface level impression of me...
My classmates saw me as the weird girl. So midly crazy on the outside and very crazy on the inside. That aside kind outside and inside I think.
Kind on the outside and sinister on the inside. Just the way I want them to think of me. Someone not to be trifled with. Can't be arsed to deal with people trying to take advantage of me, when they believe me to be a kind person.
Many people have told me that I look scary and or angry very easily, and I’ve just thought it was due to the unfortunate RBF I have inherited from my mother, which makes me look more serious than I actually am. It seems when they actually get to know me though, all their previous impressions are swept away. I don’t know if that’s good or not, but it has also been said that I am very hard to approach when I’m alone. Might be some sort of introvert defense mechanism lol. On the other hand, others have praised me for my “sunny” smile. I guess I’m just easier to talk to when I’m with people who I know and like. I’ve also been told I am the kindest person they’ve ever met, though I wouldn’t know since I don’t think I’m kind enough to warrant such a remark. People are weird I suppose. I don’t think you should be concerned about what others’ impressions of you are, if you know it isn’t true and aren’t hurt by it. People base their opinions on sometimes the smallest of things, and I think it’s almost impossible to control every little aspect of yourself people can misunderstand. People interpret things as they want. Nothing you can do about it but be straightforward when needed, or let it be lol
My coworkers see me as quite and innovative person. Well im just improving my work efficiency by changing the way im doing thing while in scope SOP. While they is just rigid, based on instructions and the previous predecessor. Tbh i don't understand them, how can they enjoyed it worked in inefficiency. The downside is nothing change and i become the reliable guy, my leisure time is still used by helping their side job smh.
This happens all the time to me and I bet to almost everyone sometime in life. It is just, that most people don't realize it. I'm very connected to people (I have my spies everywhere ), especially in university and because of that, I learned about a lot of malicious talk behind my back. Sometimes it happens, because of jealousy, sometimes because they want to climb the social ladder and sometimes, simply because they are bored In Germany, we have a really good song about this "backtalk": lyrics english translation: Did you do something that normally no one does? Are you wearing high heels or even a hat? Or did you wear too skimpy of a dress, Without asking your neighbors for permission first? Of course, now you'll be treated with contempt You're a disgrace to the whole neighborhood You don't even know their names And they're already running their mouths about you Let them talk, and don't listen to them Most people just don't have anything better to do Let them talk, day and night Let them talk - they always have, anyway You've certainly robbed a bank How else could you afford your rent? And you've been banned from the United States Because you're Osama bin Laden's lover Do you shave your women's-beard daily Or do you have a few corpses buried in your garden? The neighbors surmised as much So don't be surprised when the detectives drop by Let them talk and just don't listen Most people don't mean anything by it It's their monotonous life that bothers them And the day becomes much more interesting when you tell stories And they probably don't feel ashamed They lack discretion And repeatedly prove: [that] they are petty, inescapable, xenophobic Did you hear, and say, did you already know? That is to say, you earn your money through prostitution You work the corner by the bus station The colleague of a brother-in-law saw you the other day Let them talk, just laugh it off Most people get their information from Bild* Which consists of, who knew, Fear, hate, tits, and the weather report Let them talk, because this is how it is: As long as they talk, that's the worst they do And you can afford a little hypocrisy Stay polite and say nothing - that annoys them the most. https://lyricstranslate.com/de/lasse-redn-let-them-talk.html
Lolol ofc I'm kind, through and through! Those that think otherwise are just jealous! since I'm pretty sure that I've silenced most that matters.
Pat pat. Hey atleast people still think you're kind even if it's just the outside. Cuz on my side, they think I'm sinister through and through. Not that I give a fk tho
I have no clue how others view me but I hope it's kind through and through. Your outer appearance affects how others perceive you on the outside while your actions affect how they perceive your insides so maybe there is an issue from that perspective.
My friends' first impression of me is that i'm scary lmao. I do get it since I look aloof and cold outside (but i'm actually just too anxious to talk to unfamiliar people) one of my classmate even told me before that on the first day of school, he thought I was annoyed by him when he tried to talk to me, but i'm actually just shy. No, i'm not a tsundere . They do tell me I'm a nice and kind person though when they got to know me better.
Thanks for sharing. Me too surprised by a long time colleague calling me "he's a nice guy when he's in good mood." Like bruuh I'm always nice.
That's a very confident point of view. I also don't want to be taken advantage of but I also don't want them to view me as a psycho either