Discussion Kind or Sinister?

VIIrious · Mar 17, 2021

Elementarteilchen said: ↑

This happens all the time to me and I bet to almost everyone sometime in life. It is just, that most people don't realize it.
I'm very connected to people (I have my spies everywhere ), especially in university and because of that, I learned about a lot of malicious talk behind my back.
Sometimes it happens, because of jealousy, sometimes because they want to climb the social ladder and sometimes, simply because they are bored
In Germany, we have a really good song about this "backtalk":

lyrics english translation:

Did you do something that normally no one does?
Are you wearing high heels or even a hat?
Or did you wear too skimpy of a dress,
Without asking your neighbors for permission first?

Of course, now you'll be treated with contempt
You're a disgrace to the whole neighborhood
You don't even know their names
And they're already running their mouths about you

Let them talk, and don't listen to them
Most people just don't have anything better to do
Let them talk, day and night
Let them talk - they always have, anyway

You've certainly robbed a bank
How else could you afford your rent?
And you've been banned from the United States
Because you're Osama bin Laden's lover

Do you shave your women's-beard daily
Or do you have a few corpses buried in your garden?
The neighbors surmised as much
So don't be surprised when the detectives drop by

Let them talk and just don't listen
Most people don't mean anything by it
It's their monotonous life that bothers them
And the day becomes much more interesting when you tell stories

And they probably don't feel ashamed
They lack discretion
And repeatedly prove: [that] they are petty,
inescapable, xenophobic

Did you hear, and say, did you already know?
That is to say, you earn your money through prostitution
You work the corner by the bus station
The colleague of a brother-in-law saw you the other day

Let them talk, just laugh it off
Most people get their information from Bild*
Which consists of, who knew,
Fear, hate, tits, and the weather report

Let them talk, because this is how it is:
As long as they talk, that's the worst they do
And you can afford a little hypocrisy
Stay polite and say nothing - that annoys them the most.
https://lyricstranslate.com/de/lasse-redn-let-them-talk.html
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I love the song! Tysm ♡

VIIrious · Mar 17, 2021

CrimsonPhoenix said: ↑

I have no clue how others view me but I hope it's kind through and through.
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Violet Blaze said: ↑

I am kind through and through. Never mind other people nonsense much
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eksha said: ↑

I'm kind
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That's good keep being kind ♡

VIIrious · Mar 17, 2021

melomarl said: ↑

Those who are close to me irl know that I'm sinister through and through....
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xyzVil said: ↑

Pat pat. Hey atleast people still think you're kind even if it's just the outside. Cuz on my side, they think I'm sinister through and through. Not that I give a fk tho
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Well aren't you two similar~

Bobasis · Mar 17, 2021

Depends on where I am . At school people view me as a angel .

VIIrious · Mar 17, 2021

MidstNost said: ↑

They do tell me I'm a nice and kind person though when they got to know me better.
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That's a good sign. If you're known for that then people wouldn't misunderstand you're other actions

melomarl · Mar 17, 2021

VIIrious said: ↑

Well aren't you two similar~
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wow lol coincidence ?? ahahahahaha cute

VIIrious · Mar 17, 2021

reagents 11 said: ↑

Thanks for sharing.
Me too surprised by a long time colleague calling me "he's a nice guy when he's in good mood." Like bruuh I'm always nice.
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Yw ♡ and yes, I guess with that label, people tend to be stiff around you and take you seriously more often.

VIIrious · Mar 17, 2021

melomarl said: ↑

wow lol coincidence ?? ahahahahaha cute
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Well if I may assume from the level of acquaintanceship I have with both of you, Melomarl has the sly kind of sinister while @xyzVil, you are just aggressive haha~

melomarl · Mar 17, 2021

VIIrious said: ↑

Well if I may assume from the level of acquaintance I have with both of you, Melomarl has the sly kind of sinister while @xyzVil, you are just aggressive haha~
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I'm treating this as a compliment~ tvyvm :>

xyzVil · Mar 17, 2021

VIIrious said: ↑

Well if I may assume from the level of acquaintanceship I have with both of you, Melomarl has the sly kind of sinister while @xyzVil, you are just aggressive haha~
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Wdym aggressive? I'm only expressive

LAOG · Mar 17, 2021

I'm one of the kindest persons you'll ever meet.

FIEND · Mar 18, 2021

Bich imma saint
Holla to all the holy maidens out there like me
@Shalalalala
@Stopitgetaway
@Hasty Girl X Hasty Girl Ship
@shaquille oatmeal

Shalalalala · Mar 18, 2021

It is 50% kind and 50% sinister for me~

Lissi · Mar 18, 2021

Honestly, I think people just see me as awkward lol
But hopefully- mostly kind!

ANonMouse · Mar 18, 2021

I think people view me as being kinder than I actually am because I'm always getting approached by strangers. Well, I don't mean I'm swarmed by people, but even when it's me and my friends going around together, I'm always the one being approached by strangers for a chat. Men, women, old, young, etc. I might be giving off a puppy dog impression, but I'm not 100% sure. At the very least, I look approachable I guess.

Maybe one of your coworkers saw you being weird and freaked out. I know back in high school and middle school, some gossipy bitches shat on me behind my back because I didn't really try to hide my derpiness. These same bitches were obsessed with my bi-polar, "hot" friend (part of his fan-club). Made me so glad I wasn't the "hot guy" type lol.

As for present day, I try to keep my distance from people at work in general, so I'm pretty invisible, which is nice. Never cause drama or stand out in any way.

Fishy_MC_FishMan · Mar 18, 2021

I've been called too quiet by fellow employees with obvious negative connotations in how they said it. Fishes are supposed to be quiet . Anyways, I tend to think it better to keep some distance with other employees. It's hard to know what's going to get you in trouble with other people, especially nowadays, so better safe than sorry.

Kadmos1 · Mar 18, 2021

A yandere and tsundere thread, basically?

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