Discussion What is the thing that's restraining you from being the person you want to be?

Greetings comrades, as the title suggests
"What is the thing that's restraining you from being the person you want to be?"
You. Yes you.
What's your excuse?.

 

I'm too poor to afford my desires

 

I

Poor you. We're the same,
Ahh my long lost sister! Where have you been?!

 

I'm just not destined to be great *shrugs*

 

I'm actually so lazy my usual 96% grades dropped down to 91% lol.

 

I-, damn. If only I could have even a tiny little bit of your laziness.

 

In the back of my mind, I know that organization will help me, but I'm just too lazy and forget about it the next second.

 

This would always happen during 3rd quarter back then but for me I'm just like, "Eh, I have a passing grade anyway.".

 

Suffering in poor-world
I'm so happy I finally found my long lost sibling at least

 

So many pests everywhere in my surroundings ngl

 

Sometimes I'd like to go above and beyond, but thinking about the things that i will need to take care at that position....is....

 

All of the above, plus a fear of consequences (what? I never said I wanted to be nice or even nicer).

 

Other human beings.

Humanity never fails to amaze me with their stupidity.

 

The thing that restraining me is my circumstances and surrounding. I wanted to be an attack helicopter flying leisurely around the clouds while dropping some explosives but as you can see I am nothing more but a mere human.

 

I could actually choose two paths but picked the third option. One path would be the complete abandonment of evil and be a person whose hardworking, full of smiles and even throughout the sufferings, be able to stand tall and face everything to succeed in life.

another path would be completely abandoning my good side, be cunning and mercilessly trample whose in my way, abandon my sanity and embrace total murder spree and be someone whose full of terror and insanity.

I choose the third option being lazy, embracing life to what it is and balance the two paths.

Basically, I walk on a thin ice between my good side and evil side.

 

wow..... im watching and reading this and the prime thing that comes to mind is confidence. that's whats preventing alot of you from being the person you wish. Can't be because your Broke? find a job, volunteer for experience and look into temp jobs. your family not allowing you to be who you want to be? they aren't family worthy of being in your circle blood matters not. Your circumstances and surroundings? work harder to get what you need to leave. to be frank the only one preventing you from being your best self is you yourself, your lack of confidence and strength. you can earn money, you can make new friends, you can get a new family and suroundings by embarcing people who are worthy of your love. it all begins and ends with you. for me, the answer to this question is simply Time. im growing and becoming the person i want to be as a result of confronting myself, my demons and working hard. im not unique in this, you can do it to. its not a matter of can or cannot, but will you do it or will you not

 

I have panic attacks when driving. So I don't have a license. Which makes getting a job, or doing anything out here in the sticks, rather difficult. Since my attempts to power through my attacks just make them worse, I've given up on that route for the most part.
I'm trying to learn coding so I can at least work from home and still make a living, maybe. But my lazy ass doesn't do well with self-teaching.
So yes, my problem is myself.

 

Procrastination. Fear. Overthinking. maybe some bit of anxiety and worrying.
Being highly critical of self rather negatively than helping self stand up first on a more solid ground.

 

Just hang in there for a little bit mah friend.

What a great answer,
Truly marvelous.
It is indeed as you said.
It's yourself. If you have enough motivation plus confidence also willingly doing it. Nothing can stop you

What a

What a great answer,
Truly marvelous.
It is indeed as you said.
It's yourself.

You should probably focus on yourself more. Heal, I mean.
Maybe therapy will do. Some enlightenment.

 

It's too bothersome and scary to start. And I have my obligations.