I start with him family. I find out what kind of people they are. When I find something his family hates or dislikes, I slander him. It always works. I talk to my friends and other people and persuade them. This makes everything more real. Herd psychology. I will continue to spread it until the family finds out. It's easier from now on, go find someone who can hurt him. Mentally and physically. When I break down I won't stop until I'm sure
Personally the real terror only settled in when I relaized it was happening. At first you'll have no clue, but in my experience stalkers tend to want to get closer and closer the longer they get away with it so you'll start noticing things whether it's feeling eyes on you, suspecting you're being followed, or finding little things of yours going missing. Its easy to dismiss it until they start getting real obvious and making mistakes then you just spin into paranoia and suspicion
I remember about that false feeling of being watched when in teenage years. Said it was because the brain hasn't developed much and has thus created a "false audience" of sort. Do you try to approach people? I find the controlling the pace myself helps a lot with dealing with people. But the fact that you would make the effort to find out about them... I kinda remember a line from somewhere that despite how how easy it has become to connect with other people, people feel lonelier and lonelier. (a bit of a topic divergence sorry xD) That sounds a little more horrible than I'm comfortable with. I won't judge you but I do hope it happens less often in the future. People don't always deserved to be punished with out own hands. Just my 2 cents. Yah, that makes sense. Ignorance is bliss in this scenario but stalkers do have the tendency to push the limits and more often than not you'll notice it sooner or later. I hope people who experienced stalking do recover somehow despite the horrible experience.
*stalk, stalk, stalk, stalk* This hamster does not go into a cage! All joking about DemDem aside, I don’t think I’ve ever been a stalker. I mean, when I had a crush on someone, I’d do things like remember their class schedule from what they said so I could have something to talk with them about or the best times to run into them in the hall, but it was all very passive. I never deliberately researched them or waited around for them to show up. If I met them, that was nice, if I didn’t, that was fine too. I don’t think that counts as stalking? Unfortunately, there is a bone fida stalker in my family. There’s not really anything I can do about it, sadly. And somehow the stalking has at times persuaded other people to marry/have a relationship with that person. (No, I do not understand.)
occasionally I follow the @AMissingLinguist school where i leave a like or two in my path You learn it along the way but it's tiring You learn to not waste time searching for the clones real-self!
Because it shows how much they love them...? That was the reasoning that was explained to me by the stalkee. Sounded like BS to me. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
... I have never even had a glimpse of this skill yet. I think I'm hopeless when it comes to other people. fun fact: BS is also @Bad Storm! There was a nuf friend of mine who says bs to my face and sometimes I'm not sure is they were just calling me or saying I'm BS
Stalkers are crazy charming sometimes, you might know they're a stalker but the victim hardly does. Mine was a friend I'd had since middle school