You ever get annoyed by a person and can't figure out why?

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  1. Drakaos

    Drakaos Member (Patriarch?) of the Anti-Qidian Sect

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    So I work as a cashier and a really cute girl just came in and ordered some sushi. Her order was a little complicated but we figured it out and she seemed perfectly fine with it, despite not being able to order exactly what she wanted. The only problem was, she annoyed the fuck out of me, and I can't quite figure out why. She was really polite, and she was smiling at me pretty much the entire time, and yet something about this person just felt really off. The best way I could describe it is that her facial expressions looked sorta fake... but I feel like I might have just imagined that. Idk.

    Have you ever experienced this before?
     
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    UnGrave ななひ~^^

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    I have that happen when I subconsciously associate a person with someone I dislike.
     
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    sexual tension?
     
  4. zetsuen_dark

    zetsuen_dark [blue is the color of distance]⚓️

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    yeah. like wanting to punch someone's face into the ground even if i don't really know them?
     
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    Yeah, this. Usually when I'm kneejerk annoyed at a stranger, and I think back on it later, I realize that it's because that stranger has displayed characteristics/acted exactly like someone I hated.
     
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    Shizukani Chronically stressed

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    Yeah, it happens :cookie:
     
  8. MasterCuddler

    MasterCuddler Handsome Chicken

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    Yes there is someone at my school that looks like a prettier female Niko Avocado or whatever his name is and it’s pissing me off. I also accidentally saw a censored pic of his Only Fans and now my brain keep showing me that every time I see her:blob_coughblood:
     
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  9. Yakinori

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    Some children
     
  10. imK

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    This. They look like or have mannerisms similar to someone I dislike. I'm aware of it though so I just ignore it.
     
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    Drakaos Member (Patriarch?) of the Anti-Qidian Sect

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    Thinking back on it, I'm pretty sure it had to do with this persons smile. It was just... too perfect. She looked like she was modeling for a toothpaste commercial the entire time, even when I told her we couldn't make what she wanted the way she wanted, her expression didn't even flicker. She just kept smiling. And before you call me a lunatic, seriously, she showed absolutely no change in her facial expression the entire time she was there. Some wierd shit.
     
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    Yes... there are some times I just feel annoyed at someone who I don't know at all without any specific reason
     
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    Yes it happens to me too .
     
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    been annoyed before, but deep down ik why.
     
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    Exactly. And since i rarely hate people, with the equivalent of hating someone means a deep, long-held grudge towards the said party, it's extremely hard to dissociate that strangers from the person on my mind, even after chit-chatting with them. Even if it turns out that we're kinda chill, i usually still have this uncomfortable feelings when being around them :sweating_profusely:. Perhaps, its in the mannerism that they share, which i subconsciously associated with shady behaviour....
     
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    ListlessCat ࿈༼The Anarchic Witch༽࿈ ⦑⤉notsoGoody Good Shoes⤈⦒

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    There are few reasons why:
    • You are reminded by a person you hate .
    • She is the opposite of you and you hate it
    • You are comparing yourself secretly without your brain registering it.
    • Its because of her order. (who orders complicated sht??)
     
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  17. Drakaos

    Drakaos Member (Patriarch?) of the Anti-Qidian Sect

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    Not sure if anyone is still paying attention but I did some research and I realized, that this person's dad is a DENTIST. This makes so much sense now that I think about it.
     
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    MasterCuddler Handsome Chicken

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    …How did you research a random customer?:blobspy::blobhyperthink:
     
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  19. Lois.

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    Yes but I think it's normal to not immediately like someone at first lol, I think being in the neutral or disliking someone at first sight is something normal till you get to know more about them. Then again it's during first time meetups that I'm glad I have a pretty forgettable face.
     
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    I once accidentally hit my friend with elbow, on face and her lip got puffed up and swollen. I immediately took her to the infirmary. On the way, we met some of our friends and classmates and she was very joyfully and merrily telling everybody, "Do you guys know?Tri hit me! Hehe, She hit me! Hahahaha" and everybody was like, "Tri, get a hold of yourself! You shouldn't go around hitting others!". She has always been cunning and even though I couldn't point out this weirdness since I was the one at fault but damn, that girl has a way of being Shady!!