My Friend is heartbroken help

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  1. Vanidor

    Vanidor Well-Known Member

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    Offer sex!

    Or more seriously ask if she wants to split on something like pizza, chinese etc. Or if she drives and you don't then ask for a favor like wanting to go eat at someplace a distance away, offer to buy her a meal in return. As in you have a craving for a roadside diner but it's miles out of the way. Deals(splitting cost of delivery, free food, etc.) is enticing to most people, plus the wait time for food gives time to talk.
     
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  2. ListlessCat

    ListlessCat ࿈༼The Anarchic Witch༽࿈ ⦑⤉notsoGoody Good Shoes⤈⦒

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    Excuz me, please define "offer sex".
    Lik .. ima offer myself to her ...
    Or imma offer someone to her???

    Thank u for the suggestion~
     
    ListlessCat, May 23, 2021
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  3. Vanidor

    Vanidor Well-Known Member

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    If you care, then share yourself with her. Sharing is caring!

    I'll also kind of summarize the other advice in a more general way: even when people are down they are often(not always) still willing to help others still, you can use that to help them too.
     
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  4. naviet

    naviet Well-Known Member

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    Actually to help heartbroken friend depend on how good your relationship with her and her personality (introvert or opposite) because that determine your approach.
    If ur relation no close enough she might not want speak. When this happen u can try say u are willing listen her problem, rather than her bottle up/ stress. Or tell her to speak with her bff or her family.

    Anyway i rather concern her behavior lock herself because she might do reckless thing.

    U can try invite her eat, watch comedy movie togather on laptop ( considering covid situation) or send funny messages, read webnovels.

    Well may be this song suit her taste now... :D
    P!nk - Just Give Me A Reason ft. Nate Ruess - YouTube
     
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  5. God slayer

    God slayer Retired God Slayer

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    Give her a hug (/･ω･(-ω-)
     
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  6. Baldingere

    Baldingere Roseau pensant

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    Is she doing better now?
     
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  7. Raven Evernight

    Raven Evernight But they never just accepted me for the way I was…

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    Listen to sad songs eat ice cream drink alcohol and photoshop worms appearance to look as ugly as she is on the inside and maybe hire a female stripper she’s an emotional mess right now trying to make her feel better won’t work you need to be a chaotic mess together to forget all about it sympathy all goes so far and there’s no magic world to make her feel better so just keep her distracted till the pain and anger over the betrayal aren’t the strongest feelings she has
     
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