Discussion Patriarchism

Discussion in 'General Chat' started by Jojo775, Jun 7, 2021.

  1. Jojo775

    Jojo775 Honorary Algae Knight

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    Broad subject here, we can talk about all aspects. I'll just start with the online one.
    Most people seem to refer to unknown people online as he, instead of they or she.
    I try to use they though sometimes I forget, just now I commented on a clearly female OP thread. My literal thought was this is probably a female due to the post...and her name is AneeChan. Once I started writting the commented I referred to OP as male, brain wtf.
     
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  2. The Hamster Overlord

    The Hamster Overlord Mad scientist/Revered wizard/Alleged antichrist

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    It's okay. I'm sure he didn't mind
     
  3. Villager Anonymous

    Villager Anonymous Well-Known Member

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    I have noticed females doing the opposite with male characters so I think people just unconsciously use pronouns more familiar to them.
     
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  4. AkaNoOu

    AkaNoOu Well-Known Member

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    What about the theory that if all the people i talk to irl are males, i assume all the people i talk to online are males as well:blobuwu::blobscream:
     
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  5. Jojo775

    Jojo775 Honorary Algae Knight

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    Your life actually(without utter botching of pronounciation and Serbian name, not Russian, and it would be spelled Janković not Yankovic, 0 research Dirt League)
     
  6. MangoGuy

    MangoGuy Rambling Mango

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    A girl is just a guy in real life.
     
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  7. asriu

    asriu fu~ fu~ fu~

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    cuz your mindset there no girl on internet? or G.I.R.L.
    well neutral gender pronounce is rare used on english no?
    bear with it~
     
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  8. Ahodesuga

    Ahodesuga °˖✧Aho desu ga, Nani ka?✧˖° 《Liking Fiend》

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    Rule no. 1 of the Internet, Everyone is a he. Females do not exist. XD
     
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  9. Lois.

    Lois. ❲.❳ Wooosh.

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    It's just normal to get genders wrong online esp if it's an anonymous chat thing. And honestly speaking being thought of as a dude online is better than being hit on just cause you're female lol unless ur into the whole online dating thing. :sweating_profusely:
     
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    Hegao Well-Known Member

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    I always thought people use he as gender neutral when they don't know gender of the op?
     
  11. Wujigege

    Wujigege *Christian*SIMP*Comedian

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    I simply use "you".
    It works as being both gender neutral and also a plural.
    So whatever the person's orientation I am safe.

    So I debunk this comment like all these blasphemous translators who claim English language lacks this or that.
     
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  12. God slayer

    God slayer Retired God Slayer

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    Well... I do that too actually... Dunno why tho.....
     
  13. Lissi

    Lissi 『Queen of Lissidom』『Holy Chibi』『Western Birdy』『⚓』

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    I mean... I usually just sheep and use whatever pronouns other people are using if it's not listed in their profile (which is only one tap away so uh... yes, I check).

    If not, I try to avoid using pronouns as much as possible, and just use periods.

     
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  14. Jojo775

    Jojo775 Honorary Algae Knight

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    Male pronoun is gender neutral? :ROFLMAO:
     
  15. MasterCuddler

    MasterCuddler Handsome Chicken

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    Cuz Hu”man”
     
  16. AliceShiki

    AliceShiki 『Ms. Tree』『Magical Girl of Love and Justice』

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    I use they if I dunno someone's gender usually... Though sometimes I one-sidedly decide the gender of someone if they don't set it on their profile... Because well, I felt like it.
     
  17. Neiri

    Neiri Well-Known Member

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    as the old internet saying goes

    Welcome to the internet
    where men are men
    women are also men
    and children are undercover agents
     
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  18. reagents 11

    reagents 11 disaster personified

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    meanwhile me :
    Dude if i see someone saying or doing something stupid but i can still relate because younger me has done the same before.
    Bro if i totally relate with them.
    Mate if I'm exasperated with them.
    Lads if i relate professionally with them.
     
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  19. Existence963

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    I actually really don't get it
     
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    i use they if i don't know their gender. "They" or "their" or just call them by their username.