Discussion NUF Goodbyes

Discussion in 'General Chat' started by Anra7777, Jun 14, 2021.

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To Goodbye or not to goodbye, that is the question.

  1. No goodbye

    26.4%
  2. Goodbye, no explanation

    9.4%
  3. Goodbye with explanation

    50.9%
  4. Other (please elaborate in comments)

    13.2%
  1. imK

    imK Artful Dodger

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    If I made a general post about leaving it'd be because I know a bunch of people would miss me and I don't have time to reach out to them all individually. Usually when I leave a scene it generally no longer serves my purposes and has never had anything to do with other people. I don't tend to say anything and just private message the ones I'm closest to with my contact details if they want to catch up with me later. I never expect anything from anyone, not even friends, so it doesn't bother me if they just up and leave. Our time together was obviously done and that's okay.
     
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  2. Lurking

    Lurking Do the dead suffer, or is it a sweet release?

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    Yep. no expectations or clear expections are best.

    People aren't obligated
     
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  3. LuftRauser

    LuftRauser [Count LuftCula] [try to get active II]

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    i like this place, its like the very first forum that i actually stay around... and trust me, i'll be here, lurking with my second account. but i wont leave, only to be kicked when the forum closed or an apocalypse maybe =w=)
     
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  4. aintg

    aintg Fairy Queen of the Demonic Sect

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    What if they didn't mean it as a goodbye, only a see you, but ended up long enough to look like a farewell? Like, something happens so you tell everyone you've gotta take a break for some time, but then more things unexpectedly keep happening so you just can't find time to properly inform everyone?
     
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