Discussion Would u argue in public with your significant other or any other person important to you?

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  1. Deleted member 369806

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    Calm and rational doesn't mean I am emotionless, sure I am using mr popo as name for this account, but I am human IRL, I do lose control over myself from time to time, it is not the norm for me yes but it does happen XD
     
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    Oh fuck yea I argued in public. The best place to argue is in public. Mfs built like me have no choice to argue in public.

    I'm a 6'4 dude that weighs 200 pounds. if they call the cops and say I hit them I'm most definetly gonna get fuckin slammed by a cop.

    The best way to your significant lying to the police is to have your arguments be in public places like parks and shit just in case they lie and say you hit them you have a shit ton of witnesses.

    Same goes to arguments with friends. It's better to have an argument with one friend in front of a group of friends. It can help you see who truly sides with you and takes away the possibility of the person your arguing with changing the story of how the argument went.
     
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    Yes, I have. Why? Siblings who ate all my food when I went to the restroom. Or that time they all got lost, pushed me off my chair, tried to convince security that I was an alien.......
    (Pranks.... They happen, sometimes when I'm not in the mood)
     
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    Depends on time and place, in a hospital waiting room/church/school/library/movie theater prob not, in a public bar/restaurant/park/bus/store/sidewalk prob yes.
     
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    yes, if I'm mad enough
     
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    Sometimes, you just can't help it.. especially when you're frustrated.
     
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    Never in public. At the most, maybe I will give an intense cold glare, or some whispers through clenched teeth and a smile, while my veins are popping. But I would never argue loudly, or in any noticable way in public. If it comes to the point where my significant other tries to shout or create a scene, it's a divorce/breakup then and there, no questions asked, no second chances later either.
     
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    I got in a fight with an ex friend in public and he started hitting me and I head butted him and broke his glasses and cut contact forever
     
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    Arguing with people in public is stupid... and I would never do it regardless of who they are!

    I mean it would leave evidence of a motive after you eliminate them in the shadows :blobspearpeek:
     
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    I try not to since I like taking care of problems and stuff behind close doors and not in front of people. But sometimes I get really mad and frustrated and will lash out but that’s really rare.
     
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    Now if I had a significant other and depending on what the argument is about, absolutely in Situation A and absolutely not in Situation B.
     
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    A? B?
     
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    Shizukani Chronically stressed

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    I would try not to, for sure. But sometimes if it's intense enough, emotions do overwhelm you.
     
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    While I don't know the specifics of either situation, the point is that it would be "yes" to one situation and "no" to another.
     
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    Nope whatever that is i rather not act out in public. If they insists to argue, be loud and confrontative I'll just left them immediately and run away if need be.
     
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    eh, I had parents who had that mindset, but they never fixed things in private so it just became a constant festering shitshow we were covering up because of what others might think. If you communicate properly and both put in effort to actually straighten out the kinks in private, I'd understand, but when what others think of you becomes more important than actually fixing your toxic relationship....
     
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    ???
    but what's A and what's B?
     
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    Nope. I would discuss rather than argue if I have any disagreement with my significant other. I usually retaliate with a low voice whenever there is a difference of opinion between a family member and me in public. However, if the person is loud, unreasonable, and opinionated, I walk away.