It's a wise choice and answer I also did it sometimes when I am sane. And my anger did not went beyond my conscience.
I try to become Sakomoto. Stay silent, answer when questioned, and eat your fill. It avoids troubles.
Relatives are a weird bunch of people. You can't get rid of them, and from time to time, you yearn for them. But at the end of the day, you understand that no matter how close you are to them, you are gonna drift to an extent
I actually don't really feel humiliated tho... Embarrassed at times, perhaps. But at the back of my hand, I think of the time when I had a good time with them. If you never did, then you should stop association with them.
They are my relatives I am unable to do anything against them. So I prefer to avoid them mostly Thk you for your advice I will try to follow it
You are so talented. I want to do the same process but I have to show generosity otherwise my parents will nagging me
Ah they do nag at me after the gathering, like i never entertain/ talk to my relatives.(I do but its like they forgot they talked to me or something)
Yup I am with you I am defeating my(monstrous like relatives) and also your normal one : That we are never defeated by them.
Depends who they are, I honor my mom and respect my siblings. But I love talking shit and have no shame, don't start shit and we will be just fine. I love my family and I have no problem expressing my opinions or vice versa.
I act quite UTR at family gatherings and try to talk 1 on 1 with my relatives rather than be a group voice.
I will definitely do this one day somehow somehow Yup I also love my family it's also a reason to endure my relatives humiliation sometimes
Yup I also love my family it's also a reason to en Well yes if their are my friends I am comfortable with them
since the relationship between 'my family' and 'my relatives' are terrible the only reason i visit them or talk to them is only because of my grandpa i either try to keep my distance as far a possible with them or keep a stoic and unapproachable face and sometimes i even ignore them right in front of their face and since i have nephews i go play with my nephews and cousins and try to be a good family specifically to the young nephews and cousins since i don't want to fight fight like my parents and the parents of NC(this is short form for nephews and cousins since i'm too lazy to right that sentence again) even if i don't do the things above they try to stay away from since i hit my growth spurt (still growing) and is as tall as my uncles and a little bit scary due to my body build or huge fat body