You know how in yaoi theres like the rape to love trope? I really want to read a m/f version but with a woman as the aggressor. It doesn't really have to be actual rape, just something with a loss of control on the other party but still ends with them in a relationship. Like kidnapping, arranged marriage, abuse/bullying, etc. I've never been able to actually find a story this dark with the woman doing it. Most stories I find she's in control, but still nice. It can be literally anything- novel, manga, anime, or even a fanfic. I would prefer it to be m/f but I wound't be opposed to reading some yuri.
i've seen way too many M/F stories with that but where the shitty, douche ML is the dominant one. so it would definitely be nice to read a novel where the FL totally doms the stereotypical ML type hard. .
Not sure if this could fit, but the only one in my mind that kind of fits is Sadistic Beauty (webtoon). Tbh, almost all characters in it are horrible, not just the FL. Btw if there's a FL that's similar to male MC, they will be called witch, fans would be horrified, the author will be sent death threats and then sent to church.
http://www.jjwxc.net/oneauthor.php?authorid=1912592 This author's stuff. Read one of her QT ones yesterday, and all I can say is, her female leads are so trashy. It's GL btw. Fits what you're looking for, so maybe check it out ig
Here is a pretty good untranslated novel. 调教美男系统 An S-type dark heroine meets an evil training system. Our goal: to bring down all kinds of beautiful men! Let you be cold, evil, black and arrogant, and be trained as M. She is a mech designer in a futuristic apocalyptic world. The system is a family heirloom.
Manhwa (M/F) • Predatory Marriage between the King and the Paladin (pretty much what you are looking for) • My Lord, the Wolf Queen (forced marriage)