Questions No One Ask But We Should?

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  1. Wujigege

    Wujigege *Christian*SIMP*Comedian

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    Can I love you?
    No one ever asks that. Why not ask permission before you have a crush on someone and crush them with your "feelings"?

    "Unwanted affection is violence" as aptly said in Run On and Temperature of Love

    Maybe the next time, you should ask someone if you can have a crush on them like a gentleman or a lady should
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    On a lighter note, Why do parents love us without permission? I was never asked this is so unfair.
    The pressure of their "feelings" is killing me. ... of course, I am kidding but I guess parents do not need consent, brothers and family do not but strangers do.

    Do not suffocate someone with your so called feelings. It might just be a delusion anyway.
    Be Kind.
    Cheers!

    @ludagad @Lissi @Seaway @otaku31 @asriu

    This song by Abra Moore comes to mind from the Matthew Perry and Elizabeth Hurley movie called Serving Sara

    Someone Else's Mess
    Abra Moore

    If I loved you, would you like that?
    Would you have me on my front or on my back?
    I used to like that.
    If I trust you would it matter
    Would you care more if I showed you what I hide?
    And let you inside.
    Please don't ask me cause it's not you.
    The careless things I say and do
    That cause this stress
    But this is someone else's mess
    Can I kiss you, can I try to make you laugh?

     
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  2. otaku31

    otaku31 Well-Known Member

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    No, it's perfectly fine to love someone without consent as long as you don't force your feelings on them or use them as a weapon for emotional blackmail. Your feelings may be generated due to someone, but they are, in the end, yours and yours only.
     
  3. Wujigege

    Wujigege *Christian*SIMP*Comedian

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    To me its not love if it is not reciprocated.
    It is just a crush.

    Of course, I get what you mean but I was trying to be funny
     
  4. The Hamster Overlord

    The Hamster Overlord Mad scientist/Revered wizard/Alleged antichrist

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    Nobody asks a baby's consent for being born, which sucks
     
  5. Lissi

    Lissi 『Queen of Lissidom』『Holy Chibi』『Western Birdy』『⚓』

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    Omg, that's right!! I never realized that!! :blobfearful::blobfearful::blobfearful:

    :blobrofl::blobrofl::blobrofl:
     
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    ludagad Addicted to escapist novels

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    I don't mind being loved at all. Sexual interest is where my problem starts.
     
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    WarpstarWarrior Active Member

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    I don’t see why feelings should require the other’s consent

    actions are a different story
     
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  8. Wujigege

    Wujigege *Christian*SIMP*Comedian

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    Hahaha
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    Too much love can suffocate you. When it comes to parental love. When you can't do your own thing, can't get any space and are constantly under supervision 24/7!
     
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    Hazel00 Highland Knight | From Karsuk

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    Do i need permission to hurt others, to murder someone.
    Human are selfish creature. Love is also.
    Sometimes we don't even realize that is it?
    1. Do you only love
    2. Do you want to get loved back

    It became another problem with "do you also love me?"
     
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  11. Zeusomega

    Zeusomega M.D of Olympus Pvt Ltd. Seeking [Boltzmann brain]

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    With the amount of energy that will be spent to walk over and ask permission, one might as well propose...

    But I can imagine there are some who genuinely feel this way and really might ask for permission to have crush.
     
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    Hazel00 Highland Knight | From Karsuk

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    Didnt expect your answer to be so cheesy, but i like it.
     
  13. asriu

    asriu fu~ fu~ fu~

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    no
    this is selfish cat!
    if this cat love ya then prepare yourself!
    this cat will keep till this cat bored of it!

    on flip side
    do you wanna be hated or something?
    tututu so you are M huh....
    never know that~


    it about balance~ too much or too little can be bad~
     
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  14. CadmarLegend

    CadmarLegend one and a two and a bing bang boo!

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    But that's a name for love. Unrequited love is the term. So, by all technicality, a love that is not reciprocated is love. Just a variant of the love.

    One real question we should be asking is... What word would you use to describe a man who does not have all his fingers on one hand?
     
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    Wujigege *Christian*SIMP*Comedian

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    He has 6 fingers

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    Boy, incels are triggered by this thread!
     
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