Have you ever been approached for adult films?

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  1. ludagad

    ludagad Addicted to escapist novels

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    Just a random thought as I was watching youtube compilations of tiktoks where girls were telling their stories of quick thinking saving them from rape, kidnapping, sex trafficking or murder. And I, as a fellow woman who's been on this Earth for a few decades, could only feel sad that these things will apparently always happen. And one of the girls said at the end of her story "I have many more if you feel like hearing them..." Like yeah, you rarely just have one of "those" encounters.

    Anyway, when I was a young student in a foreign country, I got approached three times to act in porn. It's like those guys have a radar to find foreign girls. They'd start the conversation innocent enough and gradually progress to something like "Do you want to meet with a lot of guys" and go from there. (First time I heard it, I was like 'Why the fuck would I want to meet a lot of guys, I thought you were flirting and didn't want to cut you off too quickly so I wouldn't appear rude and hurt your feelings', but didn't say anything cause I couldn't speak the language well, but my listening and reading comprehension were 100, you know how it is). Back in my country, I had some sexual harassment, groping, catcalling, one pretty weak kidnapping attempt, and so on, but that was a first for me, so I was wondering, are they really that open about this? I don't think much of it, cause it's not like any of them tried to grab me and force me into a van. it was just weird. And yeah, that university town was well-known among locals for having a porn ring. Just learned about it from a local much later, and things clicked. Thinking of it now, my first roofie attempt was in that foreign country as well. And I expected it was better than my country lmao.
     
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    ANonMouse Well-Known Member

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    oh god, that guy in the first girl's story is one of those "just a prank bruh" guys in the worst way! I didn't even know it could go that bad and just mock them for sounding like jackasses.... I'll edit in more comments about the video maybe when I watch the rest.

    As for the OP, I haven't been approached for adult films probably because I'm pretty obviously male. Otherwise, the locale is pretty well known for porn production and I have no doubt it would have happened at one point or another, even with how much of a social recluse I am.
     
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  3. Wujigege

    Wujigege *Christian*SIMP*Comedian

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    I know a lot of very pretty ladies with very low self-esteem.

    These recruiters are probably more successful than we think.
    It is not difficult to get preyed on
    Khalifa's story comes to mind
    https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mia_Khalifa

    Lovelace Story is even more riveting

    I couldn't find the recap video of Lovelace but came across this


    Key points:
    She was found unconscious by her roommate with him and her roommate called an ambulance and the police.

    ICU doctor found her to have alcohol poisoning.

    Sadly, comments are filled with idiots attacking the girl for falsely accusing him

    Damn:
    https://fightthenewdrug.org/how-porn-trafficking-and-exploitation-are-tied-together/
     
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    ongoingwhy Meat Pie Lover

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    No, but I've been approached for modelling. I automatically knew it was a scam since I am not tall(1.7m). I assumed it was either a blackmail attempt or a scam to pay for a photoshoot.

    Anyway, can they really still make money from porn nowadays? With sites like Pornhub, OnlyFans, FC2, Fantia etc., amateur porn is pretty much oversaturated. If there are people still doing this for money, they're probably either human traffickers or organ harvesters.
     
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    Return Ṩ͢͢͢aℽonara

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    Everytime I read about these things happening I feel sad and grief how evil and twisted humans can get I hope all victims find help
     
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    ludagad Addicted to escapist novels

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    Well that was like 2005-2008, I guess it was still somewhat profitable then.
     
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    NirvEND That time my NUFfamily started a cult&caused chaos

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    Dang I'll be honest it's one of those back of your mind kind of things. You're aware but almost never consciously consider it.

    I can't honestly say I have anything constructive to say probably because it's almost 5am... yeah I'll edit this tomorrow maybe
     
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    Mnotia The Trash Man

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    As a dude, I don't really know how it is for the female side of being approached for this kinda thing. The only time someone has asked if they could a somewhat pornographic thing with me was literally just me sending them a dick pic.

    I've never really had people approach me outside saying "Hey wanna be a star?" type shit. I honestly think its cause im a scary lookin mf. 6'4 black guy that usually has a angry looking face. Kinda happy I was born with this resting angry face but it does harm my chances of a lot of things.

    I have like 3 female friends and 1 of them has experienced a attempted kidnapping. I don't really know how she feels about it but it was prob scary.

    My mom carries mace around on her keychain alongside a taser in her car. I think more people should carry mace. That shit hurts
     
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    Wujigege *Christian*SIMP*Comedian

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    ongoingwhy Meat Pie Lover

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    There have been rumors of cameras being found in hotel rooms for years long before Burning Sun even existed. It's probably even more likely if you're renting a room. Better check the toilet and your room for cameras periodically if you're renting from someone.

    Uh, did you deliberately leave out the fact that they found footage where it proves she was the initiator? She dragged him out of the club. You can see her dragging him around outside the club. I saw some comments that claimed she was gesturing that she was going to have sex with him at her friend(roommate?) at 0:18. She was sober enough to walk unaided and willingly entered the cab with him. She entered the dorms and swiped her access card all on her own. This isn't a case of a guy dragging a drunk girl away. So, you think he should be in jail because a girl regretted having sex the next morning? She wasn't even the one who made the police report.

     
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    Wujigege *Christian*SIMP*Comedian

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    You are the one twisting facts.

    There is no video footage of what happened in her room.
    She didn't regret because she did not recall anything from being passed out.
    It was her roommate and the state that charged him.

    Having sex with someone who is passed out drunk is simply wrong

    Alcohol poisoning proves that she could not give consent.

    Read the court documents and stop making assumptions and inventing words like "regret" which no one said.

    The girl could not wake up and an ambulance was called. If you think that's not a cause for alarm then I am speechless.

    You sound like a rape apologist.
     
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    ongoingwhy Meat Pie Lover

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    There's no footage but here you are slandering someone of a crime.

    The roommates didn't charge him and the charges were dropped. Did you do any research before spouting bullshit?

    How do you know she was passed out drunk? The roommates witnessed them having sex.

    If this was as clear cut as that, why did the judge drop the charges?

    :facepalm: Maybe she shouldn't been drinking to the point of alcohol poisoning? She's also known to smoke marijuana everyday and often drank alcohol at the same time.

    Ad Hominem? I guess I expected too much from you.
     
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    That is his modus operandi. I've been saying it for years, he will put someone up to be lynched, innocent or not to raise his popularity and get publicity for his site, Asian Hobbyist. It's one of the reasons I boycott it. He's very immoral and he'll play the victim if you call him out with "you are encouraging evil" etc etc when he himself is the one encouraging hatred.

    Don't expect much from him and you won't be disappointed. He's very scummy. And seeing "Christian" as a tag on his profile makes me so disgusted. He's as "Christian" as a pedo Catholic priest is Catholic. They say that they are X but then do things that are totally against their claimed identity. A "Christian" with a propensity for Satan's tactics ain't a Christian.
     
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    FIEND i eat crayons

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    When I was a kid. I was followed home by a car who insisted they'd take me home. And only stopped when I pointed to my dad riding a few ways down from me
     
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    Rania want to QT Love my Wi-Fi

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    Those things do happen!?

    First time I heard. That sounds like it sucks.

    So damn thankful our country is fairly chasity-guarding so those kind of things aren’t really common. Rather, no one I know had experienced it.

    When I read this I can’t help but imagine a woman spitting on the ground and scolding coolly until it turns into a physical fight with onlookers intervening to beat the man.
     
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    ludagad Addicted to escapist novels

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    Usually, those things happen when there are no onlookers, or the onlookers are in a group with the man. So a woman entering a fight in this situation is a losing game. Sometimes I wish I could carry a gun.

    Sounds similar to what happened to me. I wonder if something clicks in their brain when you mention that you have a dad. Like, they suddenly realize you're somebody's child (they can relate to the father rather than the mom) and not just a piece of meat for their pleasure. Or maybe I'm reading too much into it and hoping a piece of humanity still exists in those scum.
     
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    Shio Moderator Staff Member

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    In my country, people asking for that will immediately be stoned to death, so I have 0 experience with those (lol).
    Nah, it's because the risk become much higher when the victim is not alone. Having a witness is dangerous enough, having a witness that might also punch you to the ground is a sign you gotta give up and find another victim.

    That's why some people never travel alone
     
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    AliceShiki 『Ms. Tree』『Magical Girl of Love and Justice』

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    Luckily enough, nothing of the sort ever happened to me, and it's honestly terrifying to even think about it.

    I do live in a pretty safe region though, that definitely helps a lot.
     
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