Spoiler My Husband Will Regret This

obelian underworld · Feb 23, 2022

evanesco99211 said: ↑

At the time of that post of yours (Nov 1, 2021), 14 chapters were already translated and most of the abuse info is available very early in the story, as early as chapter 1. In chapter 1, we confirmed her father verbally and mentally abused her and possibly her brother. In chapter 3, her mother mentally abused her. In chapter 5, her brother was possibly abusive and we confirmed she was ignored by both her parents (another mental abuse). In chapter 6, her father physically abused her. By chapter 6, we can already conclude that she was, at least, physically abused by her father, mentally and verbally abused, at least, by both her parents. That is to say, her parents went beyond merely favouring her brother. They were ACTIVELY ignoring/abusing her.

As for the 'she should be able to actively wield her authority' part, it was stated as early as chapter 1 that the way both parties benefited is this: The husband got the title and in exchange, the family, EXCLUDING her, got the money from SELLING her to pay for her brother's debt. She, herself, literally got nothing except for finally being able to marry her first love. With no family backing and private financial funds to help her out, she needed her husband's backing to wield that authority. Even she knew this and mentioned it in chapter 6 (in her thought). Unfortunately, we get to know as early as chapter 1 that her husband was actively being disrespectful to her in front of the servants (this is mental and verbal abuse, in case you don't know), and actively isolating her from doing any of the normal legal wife's work including managing the household finance in chapter 2. To her and the servants, this means, she has no backing from her husband either. In other words, she could wield her authority without her husband's backing if she got her family's backing. Or, she could wield her authority without her family's backing if she got her husband's backing. Or, if this story has the magical element or reincarnation element in it, she could wield her authority without her family's or husband's backing if she owns any special power or knowledge to build her own financial fund or power. Unfortunately, in her case, we knew very early that she got none of these. Coupled with her guilt due to misunderstanding about her husband's feelings and financial status, she could not have efficiently uses what she have, to somehow wield the authority any other way, IF she doesn't even know what kind of resource she actually has (because the information was withheld from her thanks to the stupidity of her husband).

I don't know about your other posts but for that particular post, much of the info was stated very early in the story yet many of your conclusions were very different from mine to the point I'm questioning if we're reading the same story. I was too lazy/busy to reply back then but it's not hard to imagine other readers having the same itch of wanting to respond to that post even if it has been a while just to get some clarification.
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She doesn't need any backing really, her husband already shows hateful behavior and family ignores her , yes, that is true. But the ml rarely comes home so she is the leader off the house, the servants have no choice but to obey her, they probably would only hate her more though, there is a very big gap between Noble and commoner and it shows in the ml insecurities. She just has a weak mentality and is submissive, which is reasonable looking at how she was raised but really isn't doing much for her.

evanesco99211 · Feb 24, 2022

lembayung said: ↑

Wow you even checked the date, I don't even remember when I read the novel in MM, or when I posted the comment in NU, I reread just in case to see your point

ch 1. I was under impression the father did that in the heat of the moment, I didn't know he did it in the daily basis, his family is fallen, he got a lot of debt, so it's pretty reasonable to me, my father did that too when he lost his job, when he got angry I got kicked or cursed once or twice, but apart from that he is a loving father who took care of me when I got sick, cook the porridge, feed me medicine, massage my head and etc.
ch 3. 'It was the woman fault if her husband didn't love her', I assume you based the mental abuse from that. There is a saying in my conservative country that forbid free sex before marriage 'it's depend on the woman, if she says no, then it won't happen' (of course rape was entirely different matter), 'woman should keep her chastity' and much more. So you got what I'm saying.
ch 5. She got head injury because her older brother played a sick joke on her. Well, my younger cousin throw a rock at me once, got my forehead bleeding, so sick joke mean literally sick jock to me.
ch 6. I guess I miss this one, you are right, she is beaten by her father and got her ankle fractured.

Someone said to me before that 'You shouldn't use the word Abuse and Trauma so lightly', 'Where is the abuse, he only has harsh way of speaking', 'If you call it abuse cause he hurts her feeling that's means she is abusing him too, cause her words hurts him too'. 'He only treated her coldly, he is not obligate to love her' and so on. Let just say everyone has different definition and understanding regarding abuse.

Regarding wielding one authority, I read the novel 'Duchess in the Glass House', she too has no family backing or husband favor, in fact she is in more unfortunate situation cause her family abuse was a known fact, the first thing she did after returning was firing all the maid and servant when they complaining that she can't do it, they would report it to the duke and so on, so she say, 'I'm the Duchess, it's my authority', I read another one 'I Tamed the tyrant and ran away', she is abused and neglected, the father even encouraged the servant to mistreat her, so when she returning she fired them all, and the father could do nothing cause there is no duchess, the lady of the house would be his daughter, and it's her authority. I could mention another novel as well, but that would be too long. Before you argue they both regressed thus have the strong mentality or have some kind of power, well the firing happen before they manifested their power, that's not my point here, my point is it's possible without the backing of the family or husband love. I'm Asian, dunno anything about Western Monarch but since this is K-novels, I used another K-novels as references, if it's not historically correct then those author is wrong too.

Don't reply to me anymore, just as much I love to have a long debate, I don't want to get another 'take yours discussion somewhere else'
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Thanks for answering. That completely answered my loaded question. I totally agree on not using the words abuse and trauma lightly but given our totally different background, it couldn't be helped our definition of abuse/trauma would be different too. So, yeah, I'll stop here.

Mangagirl4 · Mar 2, 2022

Any spoilers on him finding out she’s sick and him going after her?

lorinreads · Mar 8, 2022

Shitai said: ↑

The husbands regrets it

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Haha! Good one!

Cmdg0524 · Mar 10, 2022

I care not for the discussions, I just need summarized spoilers. I shall be awaiting; much obliged.

Cloudland19 · Mar 29, 2022

So do they end together in the end?

Theo20 · Apr 2, 2022

Does Chloe finding out about Eric's leg condition?

Mochijimin120ct · Apr 2, 2022

Dragon_Reader said: ↑

Usually I would ignore shitty, senseless angsty novels like this but unfortunately I am currently in the mood for some shitty angsty novel.

So pls, spoilers anyone?
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Astellar · Apr 2, 2022

I find it amused u guys still arguing back and forth between the moron ml and the poor fl .
Idc what happened in between during the story, the ending would be more than enough to read, ideally that she would be dead and became free from the shackles that bound her in this life.
And please no fcking heart transplant shenanigans, that more like prolonging her torturous life.
But the author will probably make it happen and enforce a happy ending anyway duh.

GreenLily · Apr 5, 2022

Same i just want to know if in the ending she died or not

Pritee · Apr 6, 2022

Does anyone have raws download?

luliibunny · Apr 6, 2022

We really need real spoilers here...

JazOjeda · Apr 9, 2022

Spoilers

Clendenin · Apr 11, 2022

I read this up to ch 14, It was so full of misunderstanding. There is a scene that they talk but it end up by Eric walking out.
I was so frustrated reading this .

Ro · Apr 11, 2022

The female lead's ending was asked in first page. Now we are at 8th. And yet the conversation is not going anywhere in that direction. I understand majority people either
A. Want her dead.
B. Live rest of her life peacefully away from male lead/reincarnate and have happy ending with prince or anyone else than male lead/ Survive the disease and have a life in which male lead is not a part.
Now that we have covered the topic of desired ending, can we have real spoiler of Female lead's ending in novel? Spoilers please (^_^メ)
I don't really care what male lead's ending would be. He can regret or just roll in bed of roses, at this point he is irrelevant and invisible in my eyes (-_- )ﾉ⌒┫ ┻ ┣ ┳

curly _tea · Apr 11, 2022

Dang y'all are as frustrating as the novel. Please throw some spoiler crumbs satiate our curiosity. It's been monthsssssss

Theo20 · Apr 12, 2022

According to the comments in the novel, they were having children.

luliibunny · Apr 12, 2022

Theo20 said: ↑

According to the comments in the novel, they were having children.
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I think I speak for everyone when I say "WHAT THE HECK HAPPENED???"
Anyway,thankyou very much for actually giving a spoiler!❤

_EyeCandy_ · Apr 13, 2022

What chapter does he realize she's dying?!?! PLEASE SOMEONE ANSWER I WANNA FREAKING KNOWWWWW AAAAAARGHHHH

luliibunny · Apr 21, 2022

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