Are you easy to befriend?

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  1. pass1478

    pass1478 I'm in Despair!

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    The question's in the title. "Are you easy to befriend?" Additionally, how close do you often get with the friends you make? Referring to internet relations by the way.

    Personally, I try to make myself approachable and I do approach others, just that I approach them for a specific reason, such as asking a question or replying to their question. I never actively try to befriend people, not because I hate others, but just because of how tiring socializing can be for me. In the rare occasion that I do make a friend, I usually keep a good distance since I don't want to be approached too much, I'm also not good at maintaining relations, so unless they occasionally approach me, I will forget about them or vice versa. It can be sometimes lonely, but it's comfortable.
     
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    otaku31 Well-Known Member

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    I am a friendly drifter. :blobReach:
     
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  3. 0000000

    0000000 I B SMILING!

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    Give me good stuff and I am your very cheaply bought friend... for thirty minutes or so.
     
  4. elengee

    elengee Daoist Ninefaps

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    My friendship can be bought with rule 34.
     
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  5. Professor Baka De DeluPerv

    Professor Baka De DeluPerv Consumer of Plastic Toys

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    Easy as taking candy from a baby~
    .001% I'll get close to someone on the net alone.
     
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  6. pass1478

    pass1478 I'm in Despair!

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    I can tell. One of the many approachable but never attached users here, along with Asriu, Ai-Chan, Elengee (sure let's go with this name), NZPIEFACE, etc.

    Friendzone prostitution. How conveniently sad, reminds me of those people in Japan you can hire to be your "friend".
     
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    unlucky Well-Known Member

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    yes and no? if the other person has the same style of humor as me I am a very easy to befriend guy. at the same time I lost interest pretty quickly in a person who is clearly not the type of person I would have fun being around.
     
  8. anvil

    anvil Active Member

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    i'd like to think so, but i've had irl people say i suck at friendships, what more online friends so i guess it's up in the air :blobpensive:
     
  9. Zeusomega

    Zeusomega M.D of Olympus Pvt Ltd. Seeking [Boltzmann brain]

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    Scary part is that it actually does happen.

    Though like on front all escort services are just that, a company to a party or dinner. what happens next is totally "consensual" *cough*


    Not a shame in that friend gd luck (y)
     
  10. pass1478

    pass1478 I'm in Despair!

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    You have to love how that certain profession is rebranding themselves by calling what they do "escorting". Certainly does sound fancier calling them escorts.
     
  11. Zeusomega

    Zeusomega M.D of Olympus Pvt Ltd. Seeking [Boltzmann brain]

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    I'm more of a passive listener in a group, butting in now and then just to chide.

    I hate crowded places, but get togethers at our houses is the best. Some pizzas, sports or a horror movie and it's the coziest thing.

    Though I still wouldn't consider myself a socially active person, I'm very introverted in new crowds and make like zero efforts to build any relationships XD.

    XD it is, a bit fancy atleast from where I come from.

    But hearing from friends and all, the real fancy ones are recommended person to person and aren't found on any escort pages. Saw a pic once, damn they are like your next door hot girl with the abnormally right proportions that make you think " God took his time on this one"
     
  12. KizunaAi

    KizunaAi Cookie Lover ~ I love fuwa fuwa dolls ~

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    Fellow comrade, I'm the same type with you
     
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    Elementarteilchen Well-Known Member

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    Okay, I buy you for my birthday. I hope you take money. I'm not good at choosing "good stuff" :D
     
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    0000000 I B SMILING!

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    ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
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  15. Esha07

    Esha07 ☄your favorite meanie࿐ྂ

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    Nope, I bite.
    So people don't come near me.
    It's okay.
    I am fine.
    *Runaway*
    Eww don't come and talk to me.
     
  16. Mr gentleman

    Mr gentleman Ok

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    Lol I'm pretty friendly on internet. But :blobsleepless: I usually quit my relations in a blink for no specific reason.
     
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    yun yun yun (◍•ᴗ•◍) [Important things must be said 3 times]

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    This !
    Like I don't approach hoomans... I wait for them to approach me...
    And when they do, then they got my attention~
    (Anyone who pays attention to me, I find them very interesting~)

    But I am much more friendly online~~ :blobpats:
     
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  19. Lois.

    Lois. ❲.❳ Wooosh.

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    Hypothetically Yes, but whether or not I choose you to befriend back is an entirely diff stage to beat.

    Personally I really like my anonymity over the internet so even ppl I befriend don't know much about me except maybe some miscellaneous stories I have or any information they gather based on our chats.
     
  20. sakyuya

    sakyuya 【Villain】【Very tired and wants to retire】

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    I'm the type of person who will stay quiet in the corner and only talk when someone approach me to talk about something.

    I'm rather chill and smile at everyone I passed. So yep, I think I'm quite friendly.

    As for whether I'm easy to befriend...

    I think of everyone I met even my workmates as acquaintances and never thought of them as friends. So yep, I'm not easy to befriend.