HELP GIFT FOR GF

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  1. Lemonlyn

    Lemonlyn ♥[ Incubus ] Onee-san Seducer♥

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    if you were a girl and I got you a cute ceramic charm cat bracelet, what color would you pick? out of green, pink and blue https://www.amazon.com/Omky-Maneki-...?keywords=Cat+Bracelets&qid=1658464361&sr=8-3 here is the bracelet for reference~

    honestly I only know very little of what she likes but in my notes app after every date I will try and remember at least 5-10 items or things of importance she mentions. for a small list of things she likes...
    likes cute things
    owns pushies
    likes horchata drink
    poptarts
    milk tea?
    wearing bracelets with beads to play with.
    Birthday 12/23
    played cut the rope green monster game as a kid. finds it cute.
    miffy rabbit, Goose and owns cats. likes art, drawing and animation is really interesting to her. she likes ghibli animations, especially totoro and another animation about a pig pilot.
    suggestions for gifts are really helpful too!
    (not sure if pushies are a good idea at this point because I've gifted her a total of 3, 2 big and one smallish)
     
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  2. otaku31

    otaku31 Well-Known Member

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    Green neko looks best, but then do note I am no young maiden nor in a young love. :blobpeek:
     
  3. missluna

    missluna 《Melon Seed Eater》

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    I think it'd best to ask her what's her favorite color.
     
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    BooklessBookworm Sensible Little Sister ꒰ঌ(⃔ ⌯' '⌯)⃕໒꒱

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    Between the ones you chose, I personally would like pink. She has a cat right? If you wanna choose something cat themed, maybe get her something that would remind or match with it. You could also just get her an On Nom charm or plushie, if she doesn’t already have one. Any merchandise of something she currently likes right now, Totoro charms, porco rosso plushes, etc., I think she’d like. Or maybe anything previously brought up on a date, she’d definitely feel touched you remembered.
     
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    Resplendor High Lord of Souls

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    I don't think the color of the cat charm matters as much as you thinking of giving her one. That said, green is probably the most neutral color you could give. Pink and blue have too many gendered associations.
    Also gifts aren't as important as spending time and making memories. So if you give her the cat charm, make sure you do it as a momento of a fun date or special moment. Otherwise it's just a random token.
    Handmade gifts also have a good association, since you put personal effort into it while thinking of them. Food is good in this respect. Cookies, a nice dinner, a small cake... whatever. But jewelry or plushies are good too.
    Since she has cats, making cat toys out of bits of fabric or even buying them implies you care about her fur family.
    Since her birthday is so close to Christmas, whatever you do, DO NOT GET HER X-MAS STUFF FOR HER BIRTHDAY! It's bad enough being born in that month much less it being so close to the actual day.
     
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    Nai waa Well-Known Member

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    Just look at the color of her items. What's her car color? what color of clothing does she normally wear? What's color is her plushie? When in doubt, pink is a safe bet.
     
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    aegis062 Chaotic Demon Emperor

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    For some reason women of this generation don't want pink I can't say all of them, but I have bought pink stuff for GF before and have gotten not so good feedback I avoid pink green is a popular color for women, but it depends on the shade of green blue is the safe bet.

    When I was a kids/teen Pink was the go to color for most girls, but as one grows up they change in taste just like boys like blue green and black colors they later learn to like more taste that just liking one or 2 colors.
     
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    I like green :D
     
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    xiao Yi I told you to forget me but you stayed by my side.

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    sweet ~\(≧▽≦)/~

    Knowing her favorite color is a Must ↖(^ω^)↗
     
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    Pink, black or blue look good ^^ I have a taste for black so I'd pick that one, but ur gf might prefer the pink one?
     
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    Krinxin Book of Weird Animal Facts

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    I find that when trying to find a color someone may like looking at their room aesthetics helps. If there are more objects in a particular color than others, that’ll most likely be their preferred color.
     
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    Jevanka926 Grumpy and Awkward <3

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    Pink looks so cuteeee. how about one with her fav color and her favorite milk tea?

    If your gf uses make up and skin care, it isn't a bad idea either. Pick simple make ups like lipsticks and such, a cute face palette maybe? Trust me, there are a lot of face palettes that are cute, bubbly and girlish color.

    Perfume?

    I'm sure there are a lot of cartoon and animations inspired perfume and make up. My sister gifted an olaf bath kit for my second sister
     
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    Amaruna Myu ugly squid dokja (●´∀`●)

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    I like blue but pink seems like a safe cute colour
    you can just ask her for her favourite colour though I'm sure she won't find it too much about the present
     
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    Raven Evernight But they never just accepted me for the way I was…

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    Get couple cat necklaces? Or the couple bracelets that you can tap from miles away that send vibration to other bracelet so partner knows you thinking about them
     
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    ludagad Addicted to escapist novels

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    Since she likes cute things, then pink. Doesn't seem to be in a "not-like-other-girls" period.
     
  16. Lemonlyn

    Lemonlyn ♥[ Incubus ] Onee-san Seducer♥

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    TvT I can't cook for the life of me. that's a good idea so I'll try it tho!
     
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    Raven Evernight But they never just accepted me for the way I was…

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    https://www.amazon.co.uk/YAZILIND-J...men&qid=1658516398&sprefix=yaz,aps,550&sr=8-1
     
  18. Has

    Has divorcee and veteran nuffer

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    When is it gonna be my turn to be happy(。ノω\。) anyways happy birthday to you gf in advance, i wish both of you happiness<3
     
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    Professor Baka De DeluPerv Consumer of Plastic Toys

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    Personally, Blue or Green.
    Pink, for girly girl only, unless it's rose gold(?)
    Yellow, it's... well the colors sorta blend in with each other.
    Red, it stands out too much.
    Black, we all know the problem with this one... :blobnobully:
     
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  20. Lemonlyn

    Lemonlyn ♥[ Incubus ] Onee-san Seducer♥

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    ..... too bling blog bling for her taste. also I have earrings that would match those from years ago which were mwnt to be a gift for someone else

    It's not her birthday! but she was out of town for some time and I was planning on getting her a gift... because it makes me happy to give gits to people I like

    problem solved, I bought blue, pink, green and I'll very inconspicuously ask her if her opinion of which color is best between the two