I think having a good life is necessary, use your suffering as a whip to move you forward and get rich. After that, you can easily revenge, nowadays if you don't have enough money you cannot make something like Squid Game and kidnap your target without causing any problems
Well, yes. But I don't have the strength to waste my time planning against them ^.^ because at the end of the day, they will always feel sorry for me and reach out to me. And I'd be like, whatever ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ I can forgive but I don't forget. I don't even bother °Д°
get a good life then flip them when you meet. especially effective if the person you flip against have worse life
Nothing beats effortless revenge, if someone screwed you up don't waste your time trying to get them but use the opportunities as they present themselves to you, basically if kid is always harassing you don't harass them back but be the first to laugh when he screws up.
Well technically speaking, if you have the time to plot actual revenge then you'll have to admit that you were actually fazed/give a shit about the incident/people that hurt you, as opposed to moving on and becoming better for it. But if revenge is the only thing that helps you move on, then who's to say that's not a solution too
Living a good life? Sure, but only after you have crippled his dantian and exterminated his clan! Then, before finishing him for good, make him say, "Forgive me! I have eyes but could not recognize Mount Tai!" That's the best revenge.
it can interprets on various angles which also depend what kind of grudge on first place~ let say bullying during childhood, having good life may become bragging point if meet the ex perpetrator~ if the grudge come from another revenge such as you are the target of revenge because of someone close to you let say hurt the perpetrator on past~ basically the thing called revenge bring revenge on endless cycle~ sound cliche? nah this cat pray you never encounter such thing~ on the revenge cycle the hate feed each other so nope there happy stuff, by showing the enemy "lookie here mua have blissful life despite what you have done so it useless muahahaha!" move it basically kill the potential cycle~ it kinda simple stuff so this cat wonder why you ask~ it just stuff that hard to be done~