Discussion Would you date a yandere?

So i was just thinking that since i like yandere MLs and MCs so much, would i actually want to date one in real life?
The ans. Is no since dating a yandere sounds like a lot of work...
So what r your thoughts, would u date a yandere, or would you prefer not so extreme dere like tsundere,kuudere..?

 

No. Never.

I don't think I have a -dere preference either.

 

The question that needs to be asked is: does one even have a choice?

 

I was thinking of this actually! More like "how do you escape from a yandere" line of thinking.

 

No. I don't want to endanger my life

 

uhhh what happens if I'm the ----- no, nvm

 

dating is pain on da butt~ where with correct method it can be fun.....
anyway depend on degree of lose screw err yandere brain problem~ they are hmm mix of possessive and bit delusional~
the easiest way imo if ya have dominant personality so great that yandere seem like child play... they kinda cute but with some smack and rein is all they need to be keep on check~ meh just like managing some ultra loyal subject~ nothing new~

so it depend on some factor~

 

Hmmmm i don't want the extreme yandere but I don't mind if he is slightly yandere, bcs I kinda want that intense love so I don't feel insecure about being in relationship with him

 

For me it's big no no. This is one of the cases that it might be hot for someone in fiction but in reality they're not. In reality yanderes would be the creepy stalkers that you hear around the news or something. I've had enough toxicness in my daily life I don't want to be in an unhealthy relationship jeez.

 

If she breathes, she’s a TTTTTTHHHHHHOOOOOTTTT!!!

 

No. I still read books with yandere MLs but, I never imagined dating one IRL

 

Yandres sounds better in fictions but in reality its a big red flag they wont be sweet as it exist in manga comics or webnovels they will be manipulating narcissistic person

 

Hypothetically it would depend, like they should have some other redeeming qualities since their personality is already done for, redeeming qualities such as but not limited to being hella rich and also really really good looking

 

No

 

There's been some decent depictions, but this is if were just going of characterization.
Yanderes would be competent, but heavily codependant. Downsides is that they're insecure and find it justifiable to encroach on boundaries.
Tsunderes are earnest try hards, but their own embarrassment can get in the way of communication. They're quick to come to their own conclusions and would have a habit of bottling their own emotions. If it wasn't for the fact that there is a part of them that they usually self-depreciate, they can be toxic people who constantly complain without doing anything about it.
Kuuderes; their quiet acquisition for the most part can cause insecurities. A lack of anything is the opposite of reactive behavior.
This is all under the premise of "dere", where there is sincere love. I've read a few series where it's a functional relationship as long as both parties consent to it (though it's bordering extremities of "they're made for each other"). Essentially though both parties should never forget their boundaries with their SO (during different aspects of their relationship).

Understanding is part of a relationship. So my answer to the initial question, no.

 

Been there, done that, almost died, never again

 

Yanderes in novels are exaggerated because it makes a good plothook. IRL it wouldnt normally turn out quite the same. Most would only show mild tendencies, while that stalker guy everyone hears about gets put in jail or shot doing something stupid.

Frankly i wouldnt mind a partner that was mildly yandere. Loyal, loving and possessive. As long as you reciprocate those feelings and are honest with your partner, they should remain happy.

 

Woahh, how? what? why? when?

 

Spoiler

tbh I'm sometimes so thirsty for love that I probably will *cough* but who knows.

 

Yes! Because I, myself is one!

But would I date myself? Or rather would I even date? That's gay