Are you satisfied with what you chose?

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Are you satisfied with your life currently?

  1. Yes

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  2. No

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  1. Cookiemonster_007isback

    Cookiemonster_007isback I need them cookies

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    Are you satisfied rn with what you chose in your life - can be anything - job, partner, stream/course, grades or any decision?

    If not, why do you regret it?
     
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  2. Shizukani

    Shizukani Chronically stressed

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    I wish I could've chosen a different course and college lol. :blobneet: Idk, my university days f-ed me up. blobmelt_thumbs Now all I feel about myself is my incompetence in all aspects of my life. :blobbunny:

    But well, working on it! :blobtorch: You can't change the past after all.
     
  3. hansora

    hansora Someone Who Seeks Fluff & Heartwarming Stories

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    No, I'm stuck with a low-paying job and only got my driving license recently. Taking the class and exam is too costly and I let my younger brother and sister take them first. I couldn't even apply for a better job because most of them require commuting by car. Have to say I've just started applying for better jobs
     
  4. Hsu 666

    Hsu 666 Well-Known Member

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    what we choose in our life is our responsibility. instead of regreting it is better to concern in our present. who did't have regret in their life? we just need to keep moving forward and do our best.
     
  5. Tinty89

    Tinty89 Well-Known Member

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    Tried my hands at invest back during the covid and regret not trusting myself more.

    Saw some stock and thought they'd make me money, but didn't believe in myself enough to buy & hold long enough to.
     
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  6. Dearest_Reader

    Dearest_Reader 【I, Who Mewls In The Distance】【The Lazy Traveler】

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    I regret not being able to make decisions quickly. I keep holding on to different relationships that I'm unsure of. :blobexpressionless:
    Although, I finally let go of it. I still feel sorry for myself, I could’ve done it sooner tbh. :blobconfused:
     
  7. warspite

    warspite Well-Known Member

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    I agree! I'm an incoming first-year college student and I chose a field that is so foreign to me. This is not the path that I dreamed of when I was a kid, nor the path I imagined I would be. I'm not particularly great at something and I'm not particularly interested or passionate in anything. All I know is that when I write this field in my application, I wrote it with excitement and confidence. Past is past and my future is unimaginable but my present is here—the only thing that I have power and control over.
     
  8. Jasad

    Jasad ...not oldschool, just old...

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    satisfied? not really..
    regret it? no.
     
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  9. Melodious Nocturne

    Melodious Nocturne [Dance, water, dance!] [My name is Demyx!]

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    Except for the fact that I’m not home, yes, I’m satisfied. :cookie:
     
  10. Kaylee

    Kaylee Well-Known Member

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    I'm satisfied with my life rn.
    But I wish I can change my choice of education, jobs and skill.
     
  11. Erysion

    Erysion Well-Known Member

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  12. AliceShiki

    AliceShiki 『Ms. Tree』『Magical Girl of Love and Justice』

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    Yeah, I'm satisfied with my choices in life. Things aren't perfect, but they are moving for the better.

    I do have regrets though, like... Wish I had chosen some programming-related university choice instead of History. This way, I'd now know some programming, which is something I wish to learn... I'd have probably still dropped out of uni regardless, but still... Knowing some programming would be nice~
     
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    I used to care a lot about which avatar to use in the past, I guess I got lazy....
     
  14. Cookiemonster_007isback

    Cookiemonster_007isback I need them cookies

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    Same bro same. I'm in my third year, I kinda regret choosing this field of education, sometimes I think I could've done better. Well, I hope my life ahead goes smooth...I hope.

    I pray that you get your life around and get a job that not only satisfy you monetary but in the other aspects as well. Hope you've a smooth sailing life ahead, wishing you good luck!
     
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  15. Shizukani

    Shizukani Chronically stressed

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    Best of luck. :blobpats:
     
  16. Cookiemonster_007isback

    Cookiemonster_007isback I need them cookies

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    I feel the same but for some of the friendships. I don't have many words but I think it's better to just let it go. Who knows had you broken things off then, you could've regretted breaking it too early and not trying to go through it all together until the end.

    Indeed.

    Lmao hahahahaha. You can just choose a character of any series that you like, or you can just leave it like that. :)
     
  17. melomarl

    melomarl Burning Red

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    I don't regret anything. What I chose is what I have rn. If I changed anything, I probably won't meet the people I cherish today.

    Whether it be job, partner or anything I have in life, I keep moving forward. Sometimes I win, sometimes I lose. But I can just accept what will happen and go get what I want in other ways. There are times I'm also depressed about some things but I'm thankful that I'm innately tenacious. I will hack my way through life if I could. :blobhero::blobhero:
     
  18. yun yun yun

    yun yun yun (◍•ᴗ•◍) [Important things must be said 3 times]

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    This... orz
    Tho I'm still in uni... :cry:

    But the rest are pretty good~ :blobmelt:
     
  19. Cookiemonster_007isback

    Cookiemonster_007isback I need them cookies

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    I aspire to have a spirit like you :blobpeek::blobhero:
    Best of luck for life ahead!
     
  20. melomarl

    melomarl Burning Red

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    I think it's emotional maturity or some shit but you'll probably have it too with a good mindset. Accepting things how they go. Learn things and make it be useful to you one way or another.

    You can do it. I'm far from perfect too but we learn a lot by living. Good luck to you too!