Discussion Would you confess even if it's a sure rejection?

*pats*
You sound experienced..

 

It is..!?

 

Scenario 1: Instant no. (Friend thinks you are playing a prank.)
Scenario 2: Looks at you weirdly.
Scenario 3: considers deeper intention for the question and tries to pacify you (round about way to reject you) before probably avoiding you a day later.
Scenario 4: person confesses back (highly unlikely)
Scenario 5: ignores you entirely

 

Scenario with me: Confesses that I like me, too.

 

Its depend to their feeling, mind and nature and their prinsip bro...
That is my experience.
When i was in 2nd high school i confessed to my male friend... I like him not because he is handsome,, but because he is calm and i have feeling he is a family man.

But i got rejected.
I'm fine with his rejected but he is become awkward with me,, and never join with me again after that. Whenever i'm do convo with his friend he always avoid me...

Bro... You must knows their reason first.
Caus when girl still want to be friend with the one he got rejected can be many motive behind it.

What Senros said is also true...
Before you confess you should looking and knowing the bad posibble the answer she will gave.

What Senros said is also true...
Before you confess you should looking and knowing the bad posibble the answer

Good i have brave and open mind brother...
My like to you is up bro...

That is,,, you need to know yourself and someone who will get confessed,,, anything pros and cont need to be calcutaled first..
Before you confess if you are coward to lose your friendship.

That is...
Oh my God...
Thank to give me brothers who have the courages and a brave one...
*giggling in the back of all*

But Scyl... If you are sure you will got rejected then you nevermind it, it's also good for you health mind and move in the future...

Don't do that bro... In this world we don't know for sure a human heart... Example
Girl A: For monday she can said B for tuesday she can said X
Girl B: for sunday she said A, then when Friday comes she said A, but after some cond and situations she has experinced she can change her mind and said C.
Girl C: she is like girl B, but after up and down her experienced she still hold what she said.

And there are girl if you just said hypothetical to her,,, she can take advantage of your confession but in the back she is dating other guy...

Don't do that bro... In this world we don't know for sure a human heart... Example
Girl A: For monday she can said B for tuesday she can said X
Girl B: for sunday she said A, then when Friday comes she said A, but after some cond and situations she has experinced she can change her mind and said C.
Girl C: she is like girl B, but after up and down her experienced she still hold what she said.

And there are girl if you just said hypothetical to her,,, she just

That is a kind of girls Scyl gave to you...

 

A confession may be a burden to the other person. It may also ruin friendships. I really can't say. Depends on the individual case. I can easily say I wouldn't, but I'm not interested in such relationships anyway.

 

No, I'm too shy for that

 

I'll probably do it to get it over with-nya

 

If it's a sure rejection, I don't see any point in confessing. You won't get them to like you that way, but you might even end up losing that friend.

 

We can never be sure >.>

Or if IF we are then No.... I don't have the guts bro

 

I confessed a few times before when I thought I had 0 chance of actually receiving a positive reply.

Most of the times it failed, but... There was one time it worked.

Also, when my last boyfriend confessed to me, he was sure I'd reject him... But I accepted his confession and we dated for 11 months. It was quite the wonderful experience, and I'd never had had it if he didn't get the courage to confess to me (I didn't see him in a romantic light at all before the confession. I just figured I'd give it a try if he was interested, because like... Well, who knows? Maybe it would work out? And well... I definitely don't regret the decision).

So well... Yeah, I would confess. A sure failure is only a sure failure after you have failed, I'd say~

 

Honestly, if that person has expressed they dont see you romantically then you shouldnt confess. Your pushing YOUR feelings onto someone that has expressed they just dont like you that way.

BUT if that person has never stated that they dont wanna be with you then just ask. The worst you can get is a "Ew"

 

I have no crush….can’t relate..

 

I have. It’s worked out. We are still friends. I knew he didn’t feel that way and I needed to get over it. I did it so it’s out of my system.

 

No, I wouldn’t even confess if I was sure to get him. My pride wouldn’t allow it

 

No, I'm easy to anxious
And just thinking of confessing I feel *goosebumps*