Discussion If you had a choice what it would be?

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  1. Steamc

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    A situation where you could let the person you love live by sacrificing your life, what would you choose?


    Would you rather let the person you love (friend,family,S.O) die in front of you or would you they live rest of the life in regret/guilt of your death.
     
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    Should I sacrifice myself and let me loved ones be sad ?

    Should I let my loved ones sacrifice them selves , liberate themselves from the pain that they would be feeling if I died and die ?

    Idk ... Let's not talk about what ifs
     
  3. BooklessBookworm

    BooklessBookworm Sensible Little Sister ꒰ঌ(⃔ ⌯' '⌯)⃕໒꒱

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    It depends on what they want I guess. I’m a pleaser, what ever the person I love most at the moment wants, I’ll do.
     
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    Airlol Well-Known Member

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    It's not a choice. It will happen in real life. Can't avoid. As you been older you will lose some friends, family or any person that been bond with you. As you gone also, some people also will sad. So rather than choose, you need accept it.
     
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    Darkcrow. Foul Tarnished

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    I don't know what I would do at that instant, I mean talking shit is easy but when it really happens that's a whole other thing.
     
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    At least someone benefits, they'll get over it.
     
  8. LeniSnow

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    I can sacrifice my life in a heartbeat.

    Then ask them to live a better life cause they own me that, don't be guilty, be grateful.
     
  9. keialpha

    keialpha Well-Known Member

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    A lot of people tend to treat life or death like black and white type of thing. The reality has a lot of grey area. People are mortal. They all die eventually. Even when someone say giving up their life, it is about the number of years they could enjoy in the future they are giving up.

    So it is about both quality of life they are living and how much long they expect to live. If someone is living a hard life and has little expectations for the future, sacrifice for others are not as hard as the case when someone has a great deal of hope in front of them.
     
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    A figment of your imagination Well-Known Member

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    Why choose. Die together or live together.
     
  11. Immortal_Meow

    Immortal_Meow CEO of novelupdates

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    I don't think it would be hard for me to give up my life if I could save someone else's by doing so... I mean, if for example my sister (twin) needed a heart transplant to live, I'd do it for her, except that she might not want me to do it for her... and I guess some people would be sad if I died? But without those outside influences I'd do it. Not sure what I'd do if my sister didn't want me to do it in this case, would probably listen to her wishes
     
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    Actually I'm kinda suicidal, so I think I'll value every other life over mine in this kind of situation. If it's me or random person, I'll choose the random guy.
     
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    Relatable
     
  14. Ca5e

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    can relate
     
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    UndyingSLIME10295 [•Figment of your Imagination•]

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    If its up to me, I'd kill us both
     
  16. Cutter Masterson

    Cutter Masterson Well-Known Super-Soldier

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    For anything stupid. If you think about it. You won’t do it. Personally, to selfless move to save someone isn’t something to regret from both parties. It is what it is. A blessing with a touch of sorrow. Bittersweet. The victim should not be blamed for the heroic brave act. No one is to be blamed for the accident. If you think that way. Than the path your heading will be filled with heartache. That’s why forgiveness is necessary and special. Personally, I hope when the time comes I don’t hesitate and do what needs to be done. There is something to be said with not only a well lived life, but an admirable end. I wouldn’t want to die of sickness or sleep. I’d prefer the end. In a blaze of glory. That hopefully will be remember for a time
     
  17. deadlyexistence23

    deadlyexistence23 ❝ And maybe, for a while that was true ❞

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    My answer too lmao, actually me and my friend have a similar conversation before, i answered I'd rather die for you than die a natural cause of death, my thought process was.. it's too boring, i wanted my death to be remembered, for it to be dramatic, well traumatizing perhaps but i wanted to be remembered as someone who contributed to someone's life by a ton, will they lived off by the guilt? I've thought of that but I'd be dead by that time lol, i just said to get some therapy and thank me for the rest of your life lmao.
     
  18. Kelsealoufromkalamazoo

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    I would die for them because I am selfish. I don’t want to live in regret for the rest of my life, and I don’t want to be the one destroyed by losing them
     
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    Death is a part of life. However, it depends on the situation. When death comes naturally due to old age, I will let my loved one go. Exchanging my life so they would live longer would be selfish of me, because that person would now have to live with guilt and I don’t think they would be happy without me. I’d rather be the person living with guilt. When it is a medical emergency where the probability is above 50 and I know that I could risk my life by saving them, I would do it. I would rather be rational in circumstances like this to reap out the most benefits for the person dying and living.
     
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    I don't like both choices, if I could, I would rather us both die,
    thank you for plus one message
     
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