Discussion do you believe in love at first sight?

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  1. ikhors

    ikhors [ Servant Of Evil ]

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    Personally, I don't. I think love takes time and effort and energy. Love at first sight all you're seeing is their appearance. I don't like that trope too much and props to the people who fell in love at first sight but it doesn't seem very real to me.
     
    ikhors, Sep 27, 2022
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    It's impossible, lets be real, there's no such a thing as love without knowing the other person. I can understand that someone can be so attractive that if their personality is not shitty it would be good enough for the other part, but even so, it's impossible to truly love someone without knowing them.
     
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    In real life it's impossible because that's not love, that's attraction became of their beauty.
     
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    I dont think anyone can fall in love at first sight, but you can instantly find someone attractive.
    If love can be built within a few seconds, this world is either saved or doomed from the start :sweating_profusely::sweating_profusely:
    *thinks* its probably better to call it infatuation at first sight tbh
     
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    Its should be called attraction at first sight. But based on my experience, there is this one time that I fell in love with someone because of unknown reasons. You can't call it a physical attraction because I haven't seen his face at that time. I just knew that I was hooked and mind you, I do love him. Must be his way with words, his charisma. *nods* It doesn't happen all the time. *thinks* I think I can call that moment my 'once in a lifetime'.
     
    DarkChocolateMilkshake, Sep 27, 2022
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    Mr. Tired Professional Idiot

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    On a certain level, yes. It depends.

    But it's different for everyone I guess.
     
    Mr. Tired, Sep 28, 2022
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    Crush/attraction, at First Sight, might be possible though...
    But LOVE, I guess it will require more deeper interactions to feel it.
     
    Deleted member 482013, Sep 29, 2022
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    I think love at first sight normally refers to when you are deeply attracted to that person by first impression only. Which thereafter getting the courage to talk to that person, you end up falling hard. Then, from there, the relationship rolls over to dating when they reciprocate your feeling.
     
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    No. Simply no
     
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    Uhh... You mean romantically ? No...
    A chemical combustion mistaken as romantic attraction ? Most likely...

    Adoration and admiration tho ? Yupp~
    It could be towards cute and furry animals~ Cute and charming people~ A cool outfit !!!!

    This is me speaking as aro ace~ :love:
     
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    no, maybe it happens to someone, but definitely not to me:D
     
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    Nope, Those who believe in it are in for the scam.
     
    sakyuya, Oct 18, 2022
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    It is possible to love someone without reason but loving someone at first sight is not possible. You pay be attracted to certain actions they do tho that is unique to themselves
     
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    I believe in *lust* at first sight, but no. Not love at first sight. Quite frankly, it just seems a little superficial and unrealistic.
     
    Deleted member 310942, Oct 18, 2022
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    What for people who are blind.
     
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    Genuinely, I think it can happen in rare circumstances. However, I think it tends to be attraction, admiration, lust, etc. at first sight.
     
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    Maybe , but I believe in soulmates :blobReach:
     
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    Love at first sight is exciting! But it's attraction nothing much ehehehe~
     
    Esha07, Oct 20, 2022
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    No, I believe in attraction at first sight that leads to love
     
    Kelsealoufromkalamazoo, Oct 20, 2022
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    I do not believe in love at first sight, because from my experience, when I felt love was only after months of dating,
    I am pretty sure the first stage is just attraction, then infatuation, then love,
    Thank you for plus one message
     
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