there was a certain arc i forgot, it was a demon x small monk and it was relatively peaceful?? i think it was somewhat modern settings too, or just not action based. gong/seme was the demon lord (mc I think) and the monk was the shou/uke and ml. i think the main couple was a switch dynamic too, but throughout the different lives? i really don't remember much about it, but the thought of it keeps gnawing away at me. if anyone has any clues please do tell, thx nvm found it, it was everyone knows I'm a good person