Comments on Profile Post by jossy48

Why?

Because i miss the debates, learning and thinking, exchange of knowledge, resources, different people you meet, and i found it a safe haven.

safe haven? how so?

Well true, maybe during middle school it wasn't a safehaven, but as the years went by for me it became it. Because school is the foundation of growth within peers, with adult support, and you get to explore. I had that. Plus right now, i feel like i need it considering i feel like that mentoring and educational piece aspect is what i need

......is that so..... for me school isn't really that safe considering how a lot of those in grade 11 and 12 are stupid and think taking drugs, smoking and burning down the school is ok.

I mean the first two....... they still don't get an excuse but for the last one, 4 people have tried it so far since 2 years ago.... yet when the police came and they were expelled from school they complained how it is unfair and how they didn't know anything....

@Ophious well everyone has their safehaven, and sometimes it isn't school, or sometimes it is just a classroom. I mean do you still like school and just not feel safe?

School is fun
I made great friends who I trust
I just can't handle the grade 11's and 12's
some of them yes are amazing people
it's just I can't get used to those people that don't think things through.... it's stressful you know! seeing them try to do a back flip while jumping off the stares
you warn them that it's a bad idea but they don't listen!

Yea, the silly class clowns who enjoy trouble. But at least you care enough to warm them and get stress just by knowing they might get hurt, that is a good thing. So all you can do is warn them, but if they don't listen and get hurt you should just help them if you can after they get hurt, I think. So wait are you in school or..? What grade if you are?

I'm in grade 10
about to start my second semester
I want to help
I do
but they are idiots
So I don't help them
they need to know the consequences of their actions or else they will do it again.
Though either way, I found out they do whatever they want still even after knowing what the consequences are...... and they still think they are in the right....

.........why are all the other high schools I hear of so strange...... Well, maybe not strange, but definitely different somehow????

@jojo_48 Do you live in a small town? Or in a small country? What @Ophious described is a story of adolescents without "community environment." Community Environment as in a community foundation of responsibility and safety for all. Of course i can be mistaken lol.. He describes how it isn't a safe haven for him, while i had all of that chaos and still love it lol

I live in California~
There is some "chaos" in my school, but it's never felt unsafe.... I don't know how to describe it, but I've never really felt uncomfortable? Ugh.... I'm not properly explaining the feeling I get.....

Well I consider everything outside my house not a safe place
sometimes I also don't find myself a safe place
but that's mostly because of the things from Halloween hanging around in the closet spook me out....

@jojo_48 ooh Cali!! I live in MA. Maybe it is chaos of just goofing off instead of deadly chaos? But it is good if you feel less threaten. I feel that way even though, even though i am surrounded by both types of chaos. So @Ophious is just scared overall, well that is a good explanation lol

I'm scared easily but I'm not scared of school or outdoors
I just despise it~
it's like how most orphans tend to not trust anyone except their families and themselves, they've seen the bottom of the barrel and can only see those "selfless" people as nothing but hypocrites that do anything to get attention and praise
atleast this is how my friend explained it

@Ophious so is this fear only in rl? I mean u talk online to strangers. and is there a reason why you only trust your small circle of friends/family?

I just don't trust people
I can talk with people just fine
I just sometimes feel intense disgust towards some people for no reason maybe it's intuition, I don't know. I just can't force myself to get along with strangers

i'm still a stranger so...i'm intrigued by your response. Is like i want psychological explanations. I mean "intense disgust" why? how? does it come naturally, after meeting the person or?

After seeing them, hearing them speak and making physical contact.
by nothing, I mean like the type of emotion you feel to the people that are walking on the other side of the sidewalk
You don't know they exist so you don't really care about them

Then there are the people who I like for no reason, I just think of them as nice people even though I have never heard of them and they have not done anything for me

finally disgust, I don't know why
I just am disgusted by them
like I met my friend's girlfriend, she was a nice girl
Kind and polite, 9/10 people will for sure call her cute and she didn't seem to mind him hanging out with other girls so I guess that shows trust, maybe?
anyways, I still was disgusted by her. I'm glad I was able to let it not show on my face.

idk if i can ask this, don't answer if you don't want to. But the people you are "married" to, have you met them in real life?

Speedy lives on the otherside of the world so no
Though most of the time this account is used by my friends so the actual amount of time I have chatted woth her isn't much to begin with

wait so u share ur account?..why? how do i know when i talk with "you"? i have so many questions for you lol

When my title is Speedy's husband or Alice's friend then it's a safe bet that I'm me
also I don't share my account
they just know my password for somereason...

*hugs @Ophious* So it's like a sixth sense of sorts?

*hugs back*
Either 6th sense or me just unconsciously judging people