Bitch please. What is a man without his collection of porn? Be it gay or straight. Or tentacles. I'm not judging. Everyone should have their own porn collection, whether in their mindd or in their gallery.
What's wrong with the expression? I didin't mean anything bad with it. More like... Please (said in a very sarcastic? tone of voice). Or... I dunno. I practically made my point already.
Also, I was being dramatic. A little drama here and there is fun.
Well that's the problem. The expression might carter your needs while making the person you are talking to uncomfortable. But as long as you are fine with it, you can continue doing so.
Whether the porn is habitual or addictive, it's destructive regardless. That's the opinion I share. Actually be it cigarettes or porn, I have only seen them increase the distress in people after suppressing it for a very short amount of time.
But that would mean compromising who I am, bcuz I use the expression often. Why would I do that bcuz of someoke is uncomfortable? Adversity tests me and those around me. If they can't take me using it, then why should I accept some of their quirks?
Look Papercut I am a big supporter of possessing an independent mind and retaining your sense of self. But this doesn't qualify here.
It's like shitting in public and thinking it's who you are. But the reality is, you were never toilet trained.
So somethings are learned. And being rigid doesn't end well. You are not the same as you from a few years ago. What you are is actually under construct.
In matters regarding people, it's best to retain your civility. Some expressions are really not pleasing unless you are very close terms, and this is the same as being trained and not being trained.
You may talk with such frankness at your house and even call yourself 'this daddy'. But doing the same in public full of strangers would really not be a wise choice. And covering it up under this is who you are isn't any wiser.
I actually thought of it more like... why keep ppl around if they can't accept who you are?
And I think bcuz of the anonymity this site offers me, I feel relaxed and speak however I wish. This doesen't mean I can't act civilly. Civilisized(ly?). Anyway. I just don't bother with it.
As I said before, the answer can't be anything rigid. You are not fixed. You are changing and you are developing and you are building yourself in every moment you live and experience. Every thought counts.
Anonymity has nothing to do with it. I speak the same in real life. If anything, changing your behaviour online shows that you are letting off steam or are actually repressed.
The same thought can be said in better words. And the application of words doesn't change the core ideals that make you true to yourself.
Sounfs like a case of indigestion eaiting to happen..I will have the 'happy' feast with extra sweet toppings hold the bitter 'adversity' if you don't mind ! haha
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