Comments on Profile Post by Lonelycity

  1. Lonelycity
    Lonelycity
    Pat pat by the way.. you have it tough ^_^
    Dec 15, 2018
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  2. Moonpearl
    Moonpearl
    I also like yaoi, but yuri has plenty appeal of its own and needs all the love it can get. Plus it's fun to discuss yuri with everyone. I feel like the BL community has mostly abandoned the Danmei Room...
    Dec 15, 2018
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  3. Lonelycity
    Lonelycity
    Moon pearl you are late to the action. Most of the Bl people have transitioned to disc~~
    I see them there but not that often... ask obaa sama where the Bl lovers are right now
    Dec 15, 2018
  4. Lonelycity
    Lonelycity
    The mod devil one
    Dec 15, 2018
  5. Moonpearl
    Moonpearl
    It's not as fun or as convenient if the whole community goes off-site, though... It means newcomers won't be able to find everyone easily, so things stagnate.
    Dec 15, 2018
  6. Lonelycity
    Lonelycity
    Sigh... that’s the prob. I understand
    So let’s rejuvenate the place ? Ask the spoiler givers to stay and make posts. Many are active and all~~ they are just in lurker mode that’s all....
    Dec 15, 2018
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  7. Moonpearl
    Moonpearl
    Most of my time and energy belongs to cultivating the Yuri Garden, so it will probably have to fall to others to help the Danmei Room. I have things I've been meaning to drop off there after my exam on Wednesday, though, so I'll do what little I can~!
    Dec 15, 2018
  8. Moonpearl
    Moonpearl
    It might also be that the BL community has outgrown the need for the Danmei Room, though. Maybe you can bump into each other anywhere and everywhere on the forum now, so it's less desperately needed?
    Dec 15, 2018
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  9. Lonelycity
    Lonelycity
    Danmei is alive and thriving and doesn’t need help. Cultivate the yuri. Ganbatte \o/
    Dec 15, 2018
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  10. Lonelycity
    Lonelycity
    By the way out of likes to give~~
    Dec 15, 2018
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  11. Deleted member 37987
    Deleted member 37987
    You say that but if you look at the stats released recently by pornhub, looking up 'lesbian' was one of the most popular searches and ranked #1 among women.
    Dec 15, 2018
  12. Lonelycity
    Lonelycity
    Yuri is not lez. Pornhub is without a plot
    Dec 15, 2018
  13. Deleted member 37987
    Deleted member 37987
    Well if you find better stats do tell.
    Dec 15, 2018
  14. Loni4ever
    Loni4ever
    @Lonelycity lolol same.. I think one of the reasons I kinda got into yuri in the first place is so I could be like "I like both yaoi and yuri, everything's interesting" in case someone asked me about it xD it is true though, but I'm more into BL xD it surprised me that you're also more into yaoi, why is that? Sth like sheer number of BL vs GL?
    Dec 15, 2018
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  15. Moonpearl
    Moonpearl
    I don't know how much to trust Pornhub's stats, to be honest. There aren't a lot of women using the site (only about 27%, if I remember correctly?), and they don't seem to have put much/any effort into investigating how many of those are gay or bi women.

    On the other hand, we do have a lot of women in the Garden.
    Dec 15, 2018
  16. Deleted member 37987
    Deleted member 37987
    I don't understand how that makes their stats unreliable? Well of course it only applies to their community of course which means people who watch porn AND bothered to subscribe and precise their gender (and how many of those might be transexuals or something).
    Dec 15, 2018
  17. Moonpearl
    Moonpearl
    Women tend to go elsewhere for porn. It's been found that those who do like watching live action porn tend to go straight to female-orientated directors and pay for it. Erotica and Tumblr (before the downfall) were also hotspots for female sexuality.

    Also, since the majority of women are straight, it makes a very big difference if your little community happens to be women who like women anyway.
    Dec 15, 2018
  18. Deleted member 37987
    Deleted member 37987
    Do you have stats on this or is this feminine knowledge I can't possess as a man?
    Dec 15, 2018
  19. Moonpearl
    Moonpearl
    Actually, I Googled a whole bunch of questions after seeing the Pornhub year review yesterday and stumbled across a bunch of pages that pointed to this stuff. I'm sure studies were mentioned, but I'm going to have to drag them out of my phone's search history, and I've been procrastinating on reading this essay for my exam, so...

    I'll post them later, okay?
    Dec 15, 2018
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  20. Deleted member 37987
    Deleted member 37987
    It's fine, I'm not that interested honestly haha
    Dec 15, 2018
  21. Deleted member 37987
    Deleted member 37987
    I'm more interested what's the exam aobut
    Dec 15, 2018
  22. Moonpearl
    Moonpearl
    "Literature in the age of Terror". Essentially the themes of the sublime and terror/horror in Romantic literature during and around the French Revolution.
    Dec 15, 2018
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  23. Deleted member 37987
    Deleted member 37987
    Ooooooh that's a nice theme!!! When you say essay do you mean literary ones or does it include stuff like pamphlets and whatnot published by the revolutionary themselves? Like Sieyès' stuff.
    Dec 15, 2018
  24. Moonpearl
    Moonpearl
    I'm not allowed to write an essay without secondary reading - essays written by published scholars on our field on the subject. So I'm trying to find and read relevant pieces so they don't tell me off for only thinking on my own~!

    But it's English Literature, so we only study literature that was published in English. That means Blake, Anne Radcliffe, some philosophers, etc.
    Dec 15, 2018
  25. Deleted member 37987
    Deleted member 37987
    Is it "the age of terror" though, if it's English litterature? It's the same time period but they didn't live through the terror did they?
    Dec 15, 2018
  26. Moonpearl
    Moonpearl
    The British lived in terror. Originally Britain supported the revolutionary movement, before they turned to guillotines and the like. Then the monarchy and the nobles lived in fear that the people would rise up against them, and they implemented heavy censorship of anything deemed to have a revolutionary spirit. People were also shaken that such an unthinkably horrible thing could happen in their own time.
    Dec 15, 2018
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  27. Deleted member 37987
    Deleted member 37987
    That's what's considered as the British Terror? I never knew.
    Dec 15, 2018
  28. Lonelycity
    Lonelycity
    Now I remember you... you were the one who posted the thread about liking guys in feminine attire....
    Nod nod.
    You have unusual tastes
    Dec 15, 2018
  29. Deleted member 37987
    Deleted member 37987
    Ooooh I like this
    Dec 15, 2018
  30. Moonpearl
    Moonpearl
    @Katsono It was a really bleak and tense time. Writers began having to create metaphors and fictional words to code their messages in, because the government would arrest you for the slightest hint of something it didn't like.
    (Like what?)

    @Lonelycity That's me. Life's too short to like only "normal" things.
    Dec 15, 2018
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  31. Deleted member 37987
    Deleted member 37987
    I like you liking men in feminine attires (I don't really like that myself though unless it looks like a girl).
    Dec 15, 2018
  32. Moonpearl
    Moonpearl
    I see~!
    Dec 15, 2018
  33. Deleted member 37987
    Deleted member 37987
    By the way do you have discord?
    Dec 15, 2018
  34. Lonelycity
    Lonelycity
    Meh likes are personal stuff but it’s an awesome feeling when you know you’re semi unique~~
    Ganbatte
    Dec 15, 2018
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  35. Moonpearl
    Moonpearl
    @Katsono Nope.

    @Lonelycity It's fine if you don't like these things too. Rather than being unique, I just think that if you enjoy something, it's not worth suppressing that to try and fit in.
    Dec 15, 2018
  36. Lonelycity
    Lonelycity
    Nod nod. Agreed.
    Dec 15, 2018
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  37. Deleted member 37987
    Deleted member 37987
    Sucks :(

    People should be allowed to enjoy what they want and bring in diversity, agreed.
    Dec 15, 2018
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