Not really? I don't get pleasure from inflicting pain, really. I just like biting *Shrug* Used to have a friend that would let me bite him whenever I got bitey. Was a running joke that I was his feral cat.
*Keeps poking to find ticklish spots, gets distracted by fluffy tiger ears, starts rubbing ears*
Eh, who knows~ but sadism doesnt have to have anything to do with sexual pleasure! Its pleasure and enjoyment on general... and things like humiliation or embarrassment can definitely lead to sadistic enjoyment too~
Nope, no, not me. I hate humiliation and embarrassment. Sooooo not my kink. I guess I derive pleasure from the act of biting, but I don't inflict pain on the person being bit unless they ask me to.
*blows air on ears to make them twitch* I love doing this to make my cat's ears twitch, fufufu
Hmm~ *psycho-analysis* maybe its something about being connected? After all, there isnt very much you can do to be physically closer than literally putting a piece of them in your mouth & even leaving a mark *thinks*
(Anyways, its just somehow interesting. If i'm bothering you on the topic somehow, just say so~)
It's possible? I dunno, I find your view interesting. But what about when I'm just feeling bitey, not necessarily towards a specific person?
I do admit that when I want to leave a mark it's usually a territorial thing. Not in a "back off" kind of way, though. It's just like "hey, person, you are my friend and belong in my bubble, have a mark to celebrate your worthiness, fufufu"
Hmm~ well, a desire for closeness and affection forsnt have to be a directed thing. It could be amild form of loneliness or just a wish for some general reassurance?
*Keeps nomming, until I sneeze from the tickly fur*
I can see how that would be the case. Probably not even untrue in my case. I don't typically interact with others on the day to day irl. That's why I tend to be huggy and affectionate online.
Owo
Well, hugging aquaintanves can be kinda weird... or maybe thats just me. I dunno.
I need to like people quite a bit in rl before i allow them to hug me or hug them outside of special circumstances
Ah... thats even less interaction than in university. Humans are social creatures, you okay? O.o
Yup! I grew up a latchkey kid who also moved around a lot. So I got used to not being around people from a young age. When I need social interaction I use sites like nuf. If I actually physically need to be around people, I'll go for a walk downtown
*nods* i dont use facebook and co. For those very reasons.
On one hand it shoud be sad that a forum of strangers is way more friendly to each other than prople on facrbook - people you are actually connected with somehow in rl - but on the other hand its great how this website is, and how we can all meet each other~
*nod nod* i live in a small town too; even facing the edge. Though, a ways that way is a big town... so the forest on the hill between looks sometimes like its burning, but otherwise not much light pollution~
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