Also, I don't think it's about being interesting. It's about being interested, actively engaging with the other individual. Inherently, people are not interesting.
Also also, all people don't have to be "vulnerable" to connect with one another. That's such a single minded way to think. Some people inherently just have no vulnerability. Some people can communicate with their eyes when meeting for the first time.
You sound like a person who has only seen one side of the world. You sound as if you've only seen through your eyes. Or that you don't believe another world exists.
And trying to broadcast your personality if you weren't already doing it is like telling a person to be fake. It's like telling a person to turn themselves on. Your premise is so flawed.
Aura is actually metaphysical, as in spiritual. It's not your body language, something you can't see or rationalize, you just feel it there. That being said, I wouldn't liken it to a fingerprint but more like your body scent or your complexion. It's hard to change yet, it's not impossible to change. There are books written about how to change your aura, most of which include meditation and better lifestyle choices.
What I think Lychee meant though, was probably a person's atmosphere. You know, like how you meet someone for the first time and you instantly thought, "Man, I don't want to be here much longer" or "This guy is a gonna be a pain in the ass." There are ways to change this perception of you, and while it is hard, with enough determination, you can change.
Then maybe it's actually your look+ your body language. When you frown all the time you'd give off an unapproachable aura, when you walk with your back straight you'd give off a confident aura/vibe. When you smile a lot you'd give off a friendly aura. :/
Thank you everyone for all the really thoughtful responses! I’m kind of surprised by the profile post text wall — it’s so cramped to type here! xD would you rather discuss it in a thread/blog elsewhere?
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