Short story: people on the forum were saying that people who OD, whether by accident or suicide, aren’t tragic.
Long story: people on the forum were saying that my mom’s death wasn’t a tragedy. One person was even more heartless and saying that people who commit suicide are weak and pathetic and deserve no mercy.
It’s been three and a half years since she died, but it still hurts. Even if we didn’t always get along, for various reasons, I still loved her very much.
The very reason why my profile is locked to posting for anyone who I don't follow~
I also had to deal with idiots like that before, so rly you shouldn't that that to heart~
What those guys are saying is rubbish~
It is a sad thing, no matter what others say
*Hug gentle and slowly brushes your hair*
If you need anything I am here to listen okay?
Three years is hardly enough time to grieve your mom's passing....even in a natural situation. My dad passed away thirteen years ago of cancer, and I still grieve and miss him to this day...
To have your mom tragically passed away will take a lifetime perhaps...but one day, you will be able to look back and smile in memory of your mom...I will pray for that day to come soon. XXOO
I am able to smile at memories of her, even though there are things about her death that hurt too much to write down or say aloud. My mom, sometimes for good, sometimes for ill, was a very strong person, whatever other people might think.
My understanding of suicide and addiction is that, while it's an event that has a build up, the actual act only takes a moment of attention or inattention...the key word is moment, an apex....it is not the person, who she is at core.
Focus on remembering and reminiscing on the good times, the person you remember, not that one moment or the series of events that lead to her demise. That moment is not your mom, but an action she took....that is the best advice I can give you from my own grieving process.
Comments on Profile Post by Anra7777