Comments on Profile Post by Miaka_Mei

  1. pass1478
    pass1478
    In the end, one's conflict while the other's harmony.
    Jul 5, 2020
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  2. Needyneedle
    Needyneedle
    Oof~ I kind of want Dishonest Harmony sometimes but I agree with Honest Conflict. @.@
    Jul 6, 2020
  3. Miaka_Mei
    Miaka_Mei
    @pass1478 @Needyneedle By tolerating and compromising others, give and take: all for a good balance of harmony within a certain community, e.g family, colleague. But if we're just gonna keep bottle every dissatisfaction, and never voice out/discuss/listen to other's opinion, we're just gonna stuck on this "dishonest harmony" for years.

    It's not healthy for our mental health.
    Jul 6, 2020
  4. Needyneedle
    Needyneedle
    @Miaka_Mei It really just depends to a person, really. It took me a while to realize that I should not give too much shit about other people's opinions if it's something false, but at the same time, try my best to make them understand factual statements. I remember one of my profs telling us that if we only communicate properly, we would do better but unfortunately, that's not the case all the time.
    Jul 6, 2020
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