Guys have a way to get your number even if you don't give it to them. Just warn him that if he doesn't stop texting you, you'll report him. Might work?
Or if you don't want to, get your dad to kick his ass, or just have your dad drive up to his house nonchalantly holding a shotgun while talking about the big game. That always works
Assuming that you've already told them to stop, yet they are still pestering you, i don't think you can do anything about it. Either ignore or report to authority(if you knew this person irl too). I think you should do the latter especially if you guys know each other irl, not just in internet
@c.decora@strayCat0@Clumsy Soul he’s a friend of a friend irl unfortunately and I’ve blocked him in all my accounts but he just keeps coming back with new ones. Even got my family involved to cuss him out and leave me alone but he only ditched for 2 months and came back again...
I want to help you out, I really do, and I'm pretty sure I could figure something out with enough information. But I've been playing psychiatrist way too often lately, and I gotta take a step back.
@911@Bobasis@Silver Snake if I threaten him with violence, I’d probably be the one getting into trouble... at most people would just see him as a persistent dude who likes me that poses no danger cuz he hasn’t approached me irl but I’m for real uncomfortable
@Silver Snake its alright, I’ll block him this time as well. At worst, I’ll just delete some of my social media. @Clumsy Soul I’ll do that the next time he tries to communicate with me if I have to. He stresses me out.
Online stalking is a thing. Pretty sure it's still covered under general stalking.
I mentioned school because as long as your a student, it's supposed to be an additional layer of protection as compared to just going to the police. Schools have their own channels/connections/etc.
You don't have to delete any social media accounts because of him. As far as I know guys like him only get more persistent if you do that. Block him for now and if still returns just report. Don't delete any of his messages too. Keep them as a proof.
wait is this the same dude from months ago who kept callin u early in the morning and wont stop til u answer??? dint u already tell him to leave u alone or is he stupid???
iirc, yes because at the end of the day, it'll work similarly to a restraining order if it goes through. I think.
If US, you should be looking for whoever's in charge of Title IX. Most teachers/professors should be trained to know who they are, etc.
What Sayne said is right somewhat. After all, your NUF account is a kind of social media acc to avoid this person. But remember that it's almost impossible and useless to get a new acc but you're still connecting with people that's acquaintanced with him. In fact, they will enjoy and find accomplishment from finding your new accs
Damn, that's creepy and repulsive. Since even involving your family didn't work, imo it's better to report him, if he is still persists after everything you did to stop him. If you delay any further, it would be detrimental for your mental health. Stay safe, stop.
Report him - to the police, to your school, to your friends and family. Make sure there's plenty of evidence that his "persistence" is creepy, unwanted, and just plain stalking. At least you have evidence on paper so that if he escalates further, you will have the paperwork for a restraining order.
Don't be afraid of things like what your mutual friends would think etc. They're assholes if they refuse to see how uncomfortable you are with this. Just block him - do not engage in any sort of conversation with him - as soon as you do, you're signaling that his persistence is paying off.
Most importantly, look after yourself and your mental health first. Don't put yourself at risk because you want to be "polite" and "not threatening".
EDIT: We need larger character limits in these comments. smh
I’ve honestly run out of things to say cause just thinking about it stresses me out since it’s been going on for almost a year. Thanks for the help everyone!!
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