As cold as it sounds, suffering happens because its allowed.
Even in instances where it seems totally out of the person's control, there's always a choice, even if that means fighting back tooth and nail to take them down with you.
The issue isn't so much that there isn't a choice, but rather people often choose not to take it, for a variety of reasons.
Sometimes its fear, sometimes its apathy, other times simply ignorance of the way out. That doesn't mean its the persons fault, per say, rather I tend to blame the people around them COULD have helped, but chose not to.
Though that being said, I think some people don't understand what help really is. Some times the best thing you can do for someone is to take a step back and let them fall.
XD as contradictory as that might sound, you CAN'T help some people until they get a good solid knock up side the head, HAHAHAHAH!
Yes, sometimes, a goodwill can be seen as an annoyance or trouble. Instead of helping them, you're just making the problem more bigger than it should be.
People should always think twice or many times if their help is even needed.
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