You can create "im lookin for" threads here: https://forum.novelupdates.com/forums/im-looking-for.1017/ Click "post new thread" on that page
Check this out. The 5th one https://forum.novelupdates.com/blogs/welcome-to-nuf.3975/ It think this would help you
But you have to click on each category and then do this though if you want recs, go to the looking for section click the create thread button on the top righ type what you want and it will be done