You can't be a lolicon if you're a shota. Cos the girl you like belongs to the same age group as you. And no, don't have to be an uncle to be a lolicon.
being a lolicon is universal so long as you follow their rule thing YES LOLITA .. NO TOUCH... and basically dont be a loli/shota yourself
I'm a 2D lolicon. Real little girls just fail to live up to my expectations. ... but I'm an uncle. So.. Err... I can't help ya.
Welp, in a certain sense it can be taken that way but it is more like courting the loli. Like what Yun Che did. And the MC of TTNH