I am looking for this novel where the daughter is raised by her father as a boy to prevent her from being married as a political pawn. She lives as a boy, falls in love with her friend but everyone thinks she is a boy so they treat her bad. Despite his best efforts, her father is poisoned and she blames her self and runs away with the young prince to protect him (because she thinks that is what her father wanted). A prince from another kingdom knows her reality and falls in love with her. He searches and finally finds her. It was an absolute riot to read. Can someone please help me locate the novel
Wait, I know this!! Gimme a sec-- https://www.novelupdates.com/series/refusing-to-serve-me-then-off-with-your-head/ Is it this??