Discussion Are people self aware when they are cringey?

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  1. BigBadBoi

    BigBadBoi Well-Known Member

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    While here I am being the most vulgar, sarcastic asshole that I am with my friends without any shame swearing at my friend's house but becomes the most angelic saint to people I don't know
     
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    Tachi Works Not a very well known member

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    Ohh I see, kind of role playing
     
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    youseiki 『Loves Glasses』

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    yeah, at least he learned his lessons after being bashed, but the logan brothers are still the same. Now I encountered Jibrizy and how Shin Lim(lit magician) reacted to his ego video,
     
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    Tachi Works Not a very well known member

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    Yeee I definitely didn’t realize I was beinf cringey when I was younger, bc I used a lot of Japanese emoticons and came off as waayy more expressive online than I was actually feeling.

    But that was just the social norm in my online circle at the time, reading back on my old posts now though, I could have toned it down on my emoticknuse
     
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    Just be confident.
     
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    Ophious Pathfinder kinda fun

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    In the heat of the moment most don't realize how cringey they are. But aftwerwards some think back on how they acted and kinda just roll around in shame
     
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    When you’re drunk, are you aware you are drunk?
     
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    Not many people that know me know that I really like anime and manga. Well, the people that I've known for ages but I'm not that close to. My family knows, because I lived with them, so it was unavoidable (the computer was in the living room) and a few friends that also like anime know as well. Still, it's a really toned down version of how I would react in certain situation.

    Anyways, I would actually prefer to be cringy as fuck and own it, than to show a fake persona only to not be disliked. And I feel it's better to show who you are to others (if you aren't all that good at interacting with other people, lying smoothing and not thinking lies are a pain in the butt like me.) You can kind of feel those awkward moments when you and your friends are quiet because you don't know if you should go into a topic or not, because you think they don't want to talk about that or they think you want to avoid that topic.
     
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    WinByDying I can count to four

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    I can't count the amount of times where I said something or did something I sorely regretted a few hours later. When I think about it afterwards, I cringe. I should think before talking.

    And then I remember I shouldn't care too much either. Being and staying confident is important as well.

    Yes, but after a certain point you just don't give a fuck anymore :blob_pompom::blobparty:
     
  10. Seigin

    Seigin [Lolicon][GenderBender Banzai!]

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    Sadly i'm not self-aware if i'm cringey or not. :blobcry::blobcry:
     
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    Seigin [Lolicon][GenderBender Banzai!]

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    We have the same personality i see.
     
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    Liyus Laksha's Desu~ Cat

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    well, i don't know neither i care about it......i can just get away with the excuse is internet, heck if there is someone i know i whould just do that to annoy them....
     
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    No, they only realize it in their sleep at 1 a.m 2 years later.
    The more they need to go to bed early the more likely to agonize and cringe over it. Regular alcohol consumption may delay it to as much as 5 years later.
     
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    Some people play at being cringy while others don't realize they are. I have had times when I have done both. The time I wasn't aware of being that way was back a few years ago during my weebo days, but I have also purposefully been cringy to either get a point across or just to be a jerk and mock someone.
     
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    Emmyy Kadupul flower* blooms at midnight*dies at dawn

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    Haha the many faces we wear.. Am I devil or am I an angel ? A devilish angel ? An angelic devil ? Lets see who am I hanging out with tonight ? Lol

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤:):):) me too ! Ahhhh.. was that too many hearts I dont even know you haha❤
     
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    AliceShiki 『Ms. Tree』『Magical Girl of Love and Justice』

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    Lol, I hug and spin with my family, eat my grandnephew, cuddle and kiss my wife and a bunch of other stuff on a daily basis.

    What you think is cringeworthy is just my everyday life~
     
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    Fear not cringe or edge but stupidity. Its contagious and extremely volatile. Stupidity can get you anywhere to self-harm or harm without being unable to avoid it. Fear infinity of stupidity.
     
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    LivingCorpse Half-dead Neighborhood's Undead

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    Yes they are... Maybe after several years later in the future.

    As such I'll enjoy myself before that happen desuwa!
     
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    Yes and no, it depends on the person

    People who are aware might turn into psychos if things get out of hand

    People who are not aware are just psychotic at best
     
  20. Pudding Invasion

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    Isn't that the fun in being cringy? Make people cringe at you being cringy with others...
    Its fun for me >.>

    Its just a cuddle anyway... just another more intimate form of a hug <3 you need one?