Discussion [ASK GIRLS ]when you're on that time of the month...

Whenever that arrives and you're on your worst mood like ever what kind of assistance you would definitely appreciate without being snapped at men that doesn't really understand your pain? Asking for a friend...

Edit . I think i wrote that I'm asking girls opinion on this in the title. Pardon me for asking something insensitive though.
And cutter masterson seems getting my point just alright. Thanks for the advice sir. I think i already did most of them.
Edit 2. I'm the men that tried to protect her from her own destructive behavior for both of us (and the house ).

 

Am I understanding this correctly? Men snap at you when you are in your worst mood from menstruation? Is it not usually the other way around?

 

Nope... may I suggest that you read some MTL to improve your reading comprehension?

 

Whenever that arrives.
and you're on your worst mood like ever.
what kind of assistance you would definitely appreciate.
without being snapped at men that doesn't really understand your pain?
Asking for a friend...

Did I get it right?

 

I don't understand either..

 

Make her meals.
Wash her dishes.
Clean the floors.
Wipe down counters and tables.
Clean the bathroom.
Do laundry.
Clean the car.
Maintain the yard.
Clean the windows.
Straighten out the bed.
Repair anything that’s broken.
Take care of kids or pets.
Take them out to dinner? Maybe?
Listen. Listen. And if I forget LISTEN.

Pretty much anything along those line will help, but it’s still no guarantee you will make out okay. And remember these times can last around a week. Be polite and helpful. It’s the best advice I can give. Also remember no matter what you do. Your automatically wrong and she’s right. Good luck.

 

And kill a couple of brain cells in the process. Or maybe more

I'm confused by your question.

But advice on how to lessen the mood swings, avoid sugar, caffeine and alcohol. Eat multiple small meals instead of 2 or 3 big ones. Oh and exercise.

As for dealing with people... maybe they'll understand. Somehow. Maybe. Just say sorry if someone went overboard (in her eyes it would probably be you though). It's a magic word for a reason.

 

Ofh. I think i wrote that in the title that the question is for girls.

 

from my experiences, when the girl's monthly visitor came they became similar to snapping turtles. everything will be categoried as wrong by em. at this time i was making sure that our distance is not too far yet not too close too.
but if they became similar to hibernated/tamed beast, then i could as close as patting their head or just give em some messages(just in case they became a similar to snapping turtles in sec) so they could relax.







P.S. those girls i said above is only put me in FRIENDZONE area, not in way more closer relationship...

 

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I dont have PMS. I just have awful cramps and seemingly gonna die of blood loss. (those just last for the first 2-3 days though thank cod)
and if I do have bad moods I dont really know

 

Make margaritas.

 

because the dont understand the females pain and get annoyed at their requirements

 

And here we see the soy boy in his natural habitat

 

Buy that person food. Don't aggravate her by constantly asking questions like how they feel. Reactions depend on whether they have cramps or not.

Sometimes watching a movie or tv series would be OK too. I usually read while laying on my back to relieve pain? Pillows and warm things are appreciated. ~_~

 

Amm... When I have my period it's usually very painful. I also get very hungry.
I think that I will most appreciate is that people will be quiet when I ask them to. That's it.
So slience and food are my advice.
And also, it's best to ask the girl herself. Each to her own you know?

Good luck.

 

Assuming you're living with her, or close enough to do this for her without it being weird, then bring ibuprofen and water, and fill a hot water bottle for her. Refilling that hot water bottle for her when it gets cool is great too; it means she doesn't have to move about herself and risk aggravating the cramps.

In general, offering to do things for her so she doesn't have to stand up is much appreciated.

And she's likely to snap, but try not to hold it against her, and just back off when she does.
Think back to a time when you had a really, really sore stomach from a bug, or maybe a splitting headache, and someone was really unsympathetic and just kept bugging you with questions or trying to get you to move. Generally I snap at people during my period for the same reason: I'm just trying to cope with the pain, and everything else is insignificant and unhelpful.

 

or just buy a 12 hour heatpack. having that on for 1 night nearly gives you burns, but it definitely helps with the pain.
and when you walk, generally you forget your pains after a while, but I guess it may not apply to everyone

 

In the end, it does depend on the person.
Generally, cramps make you not want to move much. I personally prefer having someone around, close enough to ask for something if I need it (like a hot water bottle), but busying themselves so that I don't feel stupid for not moving or talking. A lot of girls like movies to take their mind off the pain, and sweets. You could also offer a painkiller, especially if you can tell that the girl is still in pain despite wanting to go to sleep soon

Always remember: For some girls, this hurts like hell and concentrating on anything, like talking, isn't always easy when you're in pain that you already know will stay for days and return next month, so be patient

 

I've personally never found those as helpful as hot water bottles.

And amount of pain does differ between people, and based on the day of your period. I've heard that some people have so much pain that they throw up or collapse - though that seems like they should really get medical help to relieve those...
Personally, if I don't take ibuprofen at the first sign, the first day or two will develop into pain that reduces me to foetal position. Walking comes with a lot of pain until maybe day three or four.