Hi I am looking for a novel below I will put what I remember about it. The MC the prime minister and is the uncle of the current emperor. For some reason everyone is under the impression that the MC is powerful and is treating his nephew (the emperor) as a puppet. The emperor mother even, in a flash back, begged the MC to help her son get the throne. MC is baffled by everyone view on him. MC is secretly in love with his enemy who is a general. MC likes men and this is an open secret. MC has an official wife who hates him and cheated on him with the MC lover. His nephew knows that MC likes the general. yaoi. shounen ai. bl.