When I read BL novel or manga, if the uke piqued my interest, sometimes I imagining him in bed with me and his reaction when we do it, and it's really make me aroused. If it is a seme that piqued my interest, I imagining him doing that to me, his body and expression, its make me MUCH MORE aroused. So, I think I prefer to be uke But, other than that, I like to be pampered, so being a uke fit more for me than being a seme (Of course it is consensual.) What about you guys? (Sorry for my English)
I don't really imagine that kinda stuff lolol so I dunno which one I'd prefer. Both seem quite interesting~
For several years I have never thought of that . And even when I think about it now I dont really know whether I'll be a seme or uke
I took the test it says I'm 62.50% shou and 37.50% gong. I'm going to try to get 100% of each. Or until I get bored.
I got feminine gong, I request a redo!! 囧 I threw the site through google translate and randomly selected an answer for the lyrics question. its true my habits are casual, but I swear I'm a bona fide shou!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I just posted in that thread lol. Prefacing this with a bold "In a loving, consensual relationship..." tag, just in case someone comes @ me for hypocrisy: Switch aka both. Being the uke/bottom/s means I can give myself over to the care of the other person. You gain the power to simply enjoy what happens by giving up the burden of responsibility for decision making. Assuming the other person is worthy, you can be guided by them while immersing yourself in the pleasures of everything that follows. Being the seme/top/D gives you the power of control, responsibility and the ability to directly satisfy both their unspoken desires and your own needs. Either position is very fun to be in.
My brain kind of short circuits if I try to imagine myself in bed with a seme/uke, so usually I don't bother trying I think I naturally lean to the more uke side, but I also kind of have a fierce/indepedent personality, so realistically I think it can be hard to classify me. That said, I don't really get that much pleasure out of bossing people around, so I guess that can also be somewhat excluded.
I can't imagine myself in bed with BL settings... It was 60% gong and 40% shou for me, based on that test..