I mean... I have to work, cook, clean the house and stuff, so it's not like I do what I want all the time. And if what I want is to get married and having children and to spend my time with my children... Then I see no issue?
all i can say is that more people need to figure out whst they actually want before they have kids. too many folk dunno what they want. they need to meditate or something that works for em.
For most people who had no definite passion or obsession towards something it's just something that hit like a pangs. Where they realizes that they're nearing to exit their twenties, thirties and there's not much things stored in future for them that have much meaning other than enjoying their life then they'll remember the time they had left and families they still have left imagining what will happened if they keep going just like that into their golden age of retirement just like their parents at that point in life. For those that actually pursue their passion they seldom notice or affected much by those sudden anxiety to isolation.
*cringe* I am recalling someone who falls into that, and did it on purpose, but didn't realise they were doing that, and tried to have children to not be alone, and its the worst idea to have kids to not be alone. Thats a way to be abandoned, cuz people aren't pets, and they want to be free, and they will find it , and remember how they were imprisioned by those lonely twisted bastards who thought children make friends. Everyone should pursue passions, no matter how... silly society says they are. Cuz it aint silly if you like it. Try to not be self conscious, those who judge you won't stay, but you gotta live with yourself forever. And a forever of boredom is awful. Fantasy football and joneses shit is so dry and boring and bland to me, so i do not adhere. Somebody with a passion for stamps made this cute heart. Someone else made this dragon slaying stamp @jbturkle probably made this stamp A twisted admirer of @Aquaa might have made this Honestly I think stamps are super boring and dry, but whoever made those had a helluva good time. So it cant be silly stupid.
Rather than loneliness it's the fear of 'wasting' their life for mundane pleasure so one might begins to look for ways to leave a legacy.