I was trying to explain my annoyance at danmei that have the protagonist states something akin to "I'm not gay, I just like him." I don't see this line anywhere in shonen ai or yaoi, but I notice it often in danmei. My friend interrupted me with a word. Demisexual. I thought about it for a bit. All the characters that I'm thinking of are basically asexual until they meet that one guy. They've been virgins who haven't even wanked until they meet "him" ... They're actually demisexual! I don't know why this is blowing my mind, but I had to share it.