Discussion Do you believe in ,LOVE, ?!!

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Do you believe in love ?

  1. Yes, I do !

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  2. No, I don't !

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  1. Night Ghost

    Night Ghost Ghost Member

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    Love is for the weak
     
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  2. yuzuki

    yuzuki [akki's shrine maiden] [forever] [Psyx's twin]

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    I like a lot of things @brasca123 said and I don't think I could say it any better!
     
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  3. brasca123

    brasca123 『Hell's Trainee Manager』

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    :ROFLMAO::ROFLMAO::ROFLMAO::ROFLMAO::ROFLMAO::ROFLMAO::ROFLMAO::ROFLMAO:

    If I wished to find the perfect man again, I'd probably be alone for life!!! >.<

    What I need more is to accept myself I think, I can find someone I love once I love myself again... At least I think so!
    Hmmm... I kinda rephrased something I heard from someone else tbh... It's like... When you feel comfortable around the person you love, you feel really comfortable about it, and you end up showing the more awkward and weird sides of yourself that you wouldn't usually show anyone.

    I think that being able to show this kind of thing to each other is a form of love in itself.
    *hugs*

    Teehee, thank you Yuzu-nyan!!! *snuggle snuggle snuggle*
     
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  4. elhessan

    elhessan [a nobody]

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    The point is it might or it might not, yes? What if it doesn't happen again? You leave the one you use to love? Also you might have chemical reaction with other person, then what? You have sex with them? Cheating your lovers? If you decide to stay with the one that you love and keep the love that you have with him/her, it might or might not spark once again, but that act of keeping it together is the act of preserving your love. Preserving the love in health and sickness in rich or poor. until death do thrm apart is the act of the person/couple, not just because love, but their will..
     
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  5. brasca123

    brasca123 『Hell's Trainee Manager』

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    I think will has a lot of importance in making a love last.

    The will to be together, according to the conditions to keep on being together...

    Love provides you with the conditions, it allows you to keep living with the same person after who knows how many years...

    Will, is what makes the person that loves the other to keep at their side, because love isn't perfect, there are tons of flaws in any relationship... Even if you can accept that person, if you don't have the will to keep by their side, the relationship is over.

    Sure, some relationships can be kept by will alone and without love, but I really doubt this is common these days.
     
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  6. Shiina

    Shiina 『Dying Shota』[LOT's captive] [Skullie's plushie]

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    Love? Is it edible? :blobunsure:
     
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  7. Grandpa_World

    Grandpa_World Grand Marshall

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    Seriously guys noone mentions the song? That was the first thing that came into my mind and haunted me.
     
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  8. Skullie

    Skullie (Evil’s Husband~)(Cat form)

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    Same for me.....I cannot make it go away now...

    Tsk. Song get away!!!
     
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  9. Grandpa_World

    Grandpa_World Grand Marshall

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    Yeah gotta listen to some hard rock until it gets away.
     
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    Skullie (Evil’s Husband~)(Cat form)

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    I had to sing it once
     
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  11. MrSplashy

    MrSplashy 9th Stage Martial Penguin Emperor

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    No, not anymore.
     
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  12. lexlangel

    lexlangel * Shem's butler* *Lhie's hubby* *Fallen's dad*

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    Romantic Love is a headache ~~~~
    Even more with so many diferent ways of expressing it.
    Love is a lottery~, you might find it once may be thrice may be never~
    Love if you found it is a trial, that might last for your whole life~
    Love is thinking of someone as your number 1, our childs always take that place at last~
    Love is @Lovely
    Love is tea !
    Family love is the best~
    I just wanted nuffies~~~~
     
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  13. brasca123

    brasca123 『Hell's Trainee Manager』

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    I only remembered the album "Where is Love", does that count?
     
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  14. Dori

    Dori CDLevit.

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    Hm. You don't always have to move on in that way. For some people their love is something precious, it's part of themselves. Even if their love isn't reciprocated, for them, love is the proof of their being - why? Because they end up understanding themselves according to that event.

    I think that love is more that emotions, feelings, it also has an intellectual basis. It was already mentioned that love needs a will (the will to continue) from the one who loves. But, I think that that was improperly wrote. You can't choose when to give up on love, but more on.. How to 'treat' that love, how to change your position and understanding towards it.

    Good luck!

    Why?

    I see. I've received a similar answer from someone that told me that, at first, love may be based on chemical reactions, but, to treat the person with the deserved respect is part of the relationship.

    From your answers, I can see that love can be temporal/limited in time. If sexual attraction appears and as it's (most often) temporary, then it'll pass, no? What I don't understand is.. Is that sexual attraction & chemical reaction enough for two people to have a long relationship in most cases, even after the attraction disappears?

    In general, I find interesting that polygamy & polyamorous relationships weren't mentioned on this topic as a type&way of love. From what I remember, only @Ai chan talked a bit on that. But, maybe that's because tje fact that the main idea if this topic required a specific answer, a limited one and not really a debate.

    It would be interesting to read how people who aren't loved back or who lost their love would proceed, what they'll do, how and why.

    There was a mention if asong, but I remember only a song that, in a way, to me.. Showed a interesting way of how love was related to sex. The video is a bit adultish:

    Hm. Two answers/posts that I've gave some time ago that are related, in a way, to this post of mine:
    http://forum.novelupdates.com/threads/i-know-this-might-sound-odd-but.26878/page-4#post-1058292

    http://forum.novelupdates.com/threads/my-uncles-lady-friend.42135/page-4#post-2529409
     
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  15. Night Ghost

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    Most people can't put aside their feelings and it often causes nepotism
     
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    Shizukani Sleeping Potato

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    Love for cute things is universal.
     
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    Jullia Well-Known Member

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    Love is life~
    Without love , life is hell ~
     
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  18. Rae

    Rae Sleepy...

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    ill ask further question,
    the difference between love and like.
    is it the same feelings?
    sometimes, i do like someone of the opposite gender, but it isnt mean that i love them.
    but if you love someone it must be that you like them right?
    so what your opinion on liking someone and loving someone?
     
  19. abdera7man

    abdera7man OBSERVER!!

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    Hmmmm...
    Love is that you want to be a part o his/her life...(you will always hear this word : i love him so i want to be with him)
    Like is that you are just a fan of him/her ... But you don't want to be a Apart of his/her life ( you like a singer ,a football player, a teacher., food?pizza!...)

    Maybe love enter in the direction of romantic emotions, while liking, hardly involve romantic feelings, but is more about admiration and worshipping!

    Maybe..?
     
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  20. Rae

    Rae Sleepy...

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    i myself never been in love with someone ( other than family )
    never had a thing like love at the first sight, tbh if ever a beauty was in front of me its an sexual urge that i feel.
    is it consider as love? sexual urge i mean.
    never been in relationship either, and i dont feel i need it either (for now) as im happy with my current lifestyle.
    so you say when im like someone, means that im admiring them? then liking someone can't lead to a romantic feelings?