There was this guild mate I was really close with, even when the guild died off, we were still in contact on a forum for two years, before the forum, together my dark history, was purged from the face of the earth. Those days were one of my most precious days. Suddenly left with no contact, I had hope that we will stumble upon each other one day. Five years after the purge, I stumbled upon a man with a similar username. After a brief stalking period to verify that it was really him, I confirmed. It is him! I made a profile and contacted him with a private message, putting a brief summary of what we did together and that it was me, even calling him with his old, old nickname before he renamed himself. He didn't remember me. He still remembered some shenanigans we did together. But me? Nothing. In fact, he cursed at me for calling him with the old nickname and ``kindly" told me to fuck off. He didn't give a shit about me and forgot who I was and all good times we shared. Did you ever experience something like this?
Yeah i get that feeling when u remember something with your heart but the other person doesnt gives a fuck or just find that annoying.. cheer up man!! Maybe one day u will find someone that remembers time like u do
Nope~ I've never really been into games so never got acquainted with others like that. In real life there have been co workers who became good friends that I've drifted apart from~
I'm would only play solo every time I'm playing a game. I'm too lazy to talk to someone while I'm immersed in playing games.....nah, the real reason is that I just want to act like a cool lone wolf
It's hard to judge people online. Always gotta know each other on Facebook or some social media or else you won't really have a connection with them. Hell, I still know my guild master from a game and he should've graduated from college already...... Meanwhile, I'm just going into it.
Kinda sounds Stalker like to me. How do you tell someone to "Kindly" Fuck off, I need some enlightenment.
Had somewhat similar, but much more passive responses. Happened to run across someone I used to play tons with and they had basically forgot but were polite.
The wonders of the internet. Once again it reminds you that you are not at all close to the people you think you know, despite never having really met them
I would honestly be the one doing the 'forgetting' because my memory is very bad... I don't remember much of the past, even impactful things remains a vague feeling after a while. I mean, if I were given a list of things that happened, chances are I would have an impression of it, but a name eh.... erm yeah, I don't remember.
Everyone has their own view on things and value things differently. The value that you placed was more than the value he placed, there is nothing wrong with that. It is just how things are... This doesn't even extend to strangers but even family. I remember when I was a child, my dad would see me eat something once and next he will be like "Look I made you this, I know you like this" to which I would respond "When did I ever say that?! Its barely eatable, only reason I ate it was cause there was nothing else!" Of course I would say this after like 10th time because the first few times I felt kind of guilty due to the effort but he just took that as confirmation and doubled down. Rinse and repeat 100X. Even though told him that I don't eat this stuff unless there is nothing else! Same thing, people interpret and view things from their own perspective, thats just how humans are. To you it may have been the fun of your life, to him it may have just been casual stuff. That said don't let it discourage you, one lives for themselves, even if he doesn't appreciate it, as long as you yourself do, that is all that matters.
Nope. Most of the time, people remember me but i don't remember them. Me and my pixel people goldfish memory problem.
i remember the name and faces of almost everyone i meet but they never remember me back. it traumatized me a bit and made me question my existance