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  1. listener

    listener Tony's Friend

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    okay, i will continue
    maybe ocean ??? They seem like flirted each other....every time
     
  2. Nyann

    Nyann NyanyanyanyanyaN

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    Hey hey! Hang in there! Ocean is a generally nice guy and more like a big brother of sorts. I don't think they "flirt". He can be from RL right?

    Ocean and susanty however are a thing. Most probably.

    Also I am an amatuer as well. I just am curious.
     
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  3. HNCKrstl

    HNCKrstl 《The Đevîl's Cøñsørt》『♡Hayyan's Female Version』

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    I don't know how to answer that properly. I don't think I'm in love with anyone.

    I do find one senior of mine pretty but considering infatuation over beautiful ones as not love, I don't think I am in love. :blobpeek:
    But nyan, can I know, what made you ask that? :blobsnow::blobsnow:
     
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  4. HNCKrstl

    HNCKrstl 《The Đevîl's Cøñsørt》『♡Hayyan's Female Version』

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    Nope..I never..

    No to that too..

    I'm sorry.
    Yes we aren't flirting at all. Please don't think it seriously (*^.^*)
     
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    It's possible if they are really love each other. But impossible if they're only lusted each other.

    Love and lust are different. Love from heart and lust from eyes.

    I already seen many of my friends (a female) ruin their self. They got a child, but the father gone away.

    Usually every good couples, have same personality or same hobbies, or something like completing each other.

    It's weird, if some peoples who have different tasted become a couple. It'll never going to work.

    This is Some theory from my teacher. He said the best couple is a couple who have different age. Not in the same age.
    What he means is one of the couples is more older than the partner. Because the older will have more wisdom and more patience than the younger one. So the relationship will going to work, even though they hit by many problems.
     
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    Really?? Are you an adult ? Or still a kid ?
     
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    a beautiful one, now i confirmed it, you're a trap :blobpeek::blob_catflip:
     
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    of course he is from RL, if it's not, he is justabot then :blobjoy:
     
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    HNCKrstl 《The Đevîl's Cøñsørt》『♡Hayyan's Female Version』

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    But isn't it difficult to find a person who likes everything you like.

    Yep, I guess.

    Yes, I have heard that too. Isn't that the basis of the common practice of girls marrying someone older than them?

    Eeeeh..:eek: Am I not even allowed to not to date now? :blobrofl:

    ...
    ...
    ...

    I'm not the beautiful one. My senior is..
     
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    Nyann NyanyanyanyanyaN

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    @HNCKrstl is a trap??? :blob_teary:
     
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    Nyann NyanyanyanyanyaN

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    You mean beautiful like a guy? Or a beautiful girl?
     
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    HNCKrstl 《The Đevîl's Cøñsørt》『♡Hayyan's Female Version』

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    The same one here..
    A guy.. :blobsweat:

    Should I have used a different word than pretty or beautiful...? I don't know a proper word to use which won't sound like I'm talking about a girl.. :blobpeek: :blobjoy:
     
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    HNCKrstl 《The Đevîl's Cøñsørt》『♡Hayyan's Female Version』

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    Am I ?? :confused::eek::LOL::ROFLMAO:
     
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    yup yup yup... and his avi look like a trap too
    :blob_teary::blob_teary: That's why ocean hold back his feelings
     
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    HNCKrstl 《The Đevîl's Cøñsørt》『♡Hayyan's Female Version』

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    lmao...am not a trap.
    Eh...did you say 'his' on purpose you dweeb~ :blobrofl::blobspearpeek:
     
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    not everything, just some of it, basically you must search most thing the two of you really liked. Everything can start from that.
    yup, the older one usually more understandable and More likely love to spoiled the younger one.

    no, i mean your ages, you're still a kid or already an adult ?

    you're the handsome one after all
    :blob_blush:
     
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    sorry, it's just my bad habits of mine, when suspecting some one as a trap,
    :blobnobully::blobnobully::blobnobully::blobnobully::blobnobully::blobnobully:
     
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    Nyann NyanyanyanyanyaN

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    Hey hey. Don't ship Ocean randomly, he doesn't like it ^^;
    Ship him with susanty.smile \^^/
     
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    he said it'll ended up a bad ending with susanto though, i don't know why.....
     
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    @HNCKrstl, @mr.heavy-reader , just wanna say that you shouldnt have the exact same interests.
    While there should be something you can talk about and do together, its also important that you have things you do alone or with others that arent your partner.
    A truly healthy relationship might seem at first glance like its just two lovebirds, but the social surroundings can have quite a bit of an impact on a relationship as well~

    (While I've never been in a relationship either, I have quite a bit of experience in getting relationships going & running, as well as fixing problems... just from the outside, lol)
     
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