Resolved Help me find this I'm dying for 4 weeks straight searching for this chinese novel

So I have read this chinese novel long ago and it just suddenly pop up in my mind and I can't get over it for over 4 weeks.
Its about
-Mc joins a mercenary tournament and takes first place
-Mc's friend is the grandson/disciple of a powerful person
-has emperor/imperial weapon
-mc join some realm and meet future lover and enemy, mc killed the enemy and steal the emperor/imperial weapon and also steal future lover weapon and later return it
-mc's lover clan got control by some powerful person because lover will be use in some human cauldron segs later on got save by mc's friend grandfather/master
Idk if its the same novel in above but its about the mc's clan part of guardian clan? In which mcs grandfather got banished and got place some seal on the head in which the grandfather got mad and later on disappeared. Mc later on meet the grandfather or father in some island in which the zither empress? Plays tune on the grandfather to control the madness and some avid courter of the zither empress? Go there and sees the mc and got jealous. Also the mc's clan have some sword that connects with the mc thats all hope someone can help me I'm dying searching for these over 4 weeks

 

This? https://www.novelupdates.com/series/spirit-realm/

 

No Bro I thought for a second it's the one but its its not

 

Chaotic Sword God, I’m pretty sure it’s that one

 

Yup found it bro thanks