Help me part II: so I started to do some research about me

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  1. Sawanara murasaki

    Sawanara murasaki Sawa the HEro-sensei

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    As the title say, still, people don't want to help me. Read my first thread

    I did some research but still, I typed something like "what is it called when a person can make people fall in love with them" but none of the related websites show this.:cry::cry::cry::cry:

    I'm so sad that I still don't know about myself and if I can end this I really² want to end it. I read a manga before where a guy was able to win all other guys heart but as he put on his glasses they were like "eh, what are we doing?" And in that manga it is called "disposition" but when I check for the meaning, it means other things and it has no links with psychology.

    Help me!!! I once posted this on Facebook but none of the psychologist could understand my situation and they were like, uhm something something I guess and they totally had no idea about it.

    I thank nuffians who replied my threads at least I can get some idea but I still need some details like why does it occur and I need people's opinion. If you have "this" effect too, feel free to share with me like why and how does it happen.
     
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    Nightow1 Well-Known Member

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    Rule 1: Try not to sound so desperate. People run from desperate needy people.
     
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    ListlessCat ࿈༼The Anarchic Witch༽࿈ ⦑⤉notsoGoody Good Shoes⤈⦒

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    You said your sister also have it.
    Should be in your genes

    My father's great grandma has a book for healings. But due to the priest in their village the book was torn and burned being said that it is witchcraft.

    My aunt read few pages from that book and now she's a little healer in the province of bohol.

    So by this, it really should be in your family or clan. (Not really sure if this are true, just sayings coming from my father)
     
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    otaku31 Well-Known Member

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    It could be narcissism, delusions, pheromones, physical appearance, inner beauty or witchcraft. Frankly, I'm inclined to believe you're pulling my leg. :blobexpressionless:
     
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    Uselessdead23 〘Dead but alive at heart〙

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    Just accept your fate as the protagonist of a bl with reverse harem.
     
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    elengee Daoist Ninefaps

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    Try it out on your sister? :blobpeek:
     
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    DragonMage18 Outcast

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    Bad luck, thats all there is...

    Don't try to force things to happen, most of the times you end up with a less than ideal situation/outcome.
     
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    Drake98 Concerned Fan

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    Ask straight out their feeling of you. You never know.
     
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    Sailor1 Well-Known Member

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    The glasses thing is just the unrealistic bias that people with glasses are ugly and nerdy. If you have a highly symmetrical face then I can see alot of people being attracted to you. The rest is hard to believe but I don't think that someone would curse you or your family to get more attention unless they're close to stalking behavior. I think that it's just genes.
     
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    Nightow1 Well-Known Member

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    Left, right or middle?

    :whistle:
     
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    Baldingere Roseau pensant

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    if you want help for that, go find a healer/chaman, somebody who can see the invisible and tell you what's up
     
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    Nightow1 Well-Known Member

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    I recommend Charman Mao. He's famous.
    :whistle:
     
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    Lissi 『Queen of Lissidom』『Holy Chibi』『Western Birdy』『⚓』

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    Then... put on your glasses? 0.o
     
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