How do you know if someone sincere or not ?

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  1. Ivivivi

    Ivivivi Well-Known Member

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    my dear jigoku, i cant ask G it will be awkward after that :( i hate awkward :blobtriumph:
    youre right i already guess it. i will just follow my intuition
     
  2. Ivivivi

    Ivivivi Well-Known Member

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    i think zenla means.
    if she/he shows their weakness to a person that is means she/he believes in you so the feeling is sincere.
    thats what i get :blobReach:
     
  3. chencking

    chencking [Daolord Grammar Nazi]

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    That would depend on the person and weakness (way too vague).
     
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  4. Ivivivi

    Ivivivi Well-Known Member

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    this is what worried me
    the sincere that is acted out :blobconfounded:
     
  5. Ivivivi

    Ivivivi Well-Known Member

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    sometimes multiple quote work sometimes not. maybe because my bad wifi
    what is ntr? search it in google before and still confuse
     
  6. Tramsloof

    Tramsloof Quarter Erudite

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    Sincerity is general and specific. So say, your parents are generally sincere towards you, but that doesn't mean they are sincere towards you in all their actions. They too are humans, and everyone has their interests and sometimes they have to put them before others.

    Now similarly, there are people who are generally not sincere towards you, for example that might mean your long standing enemy. Now that doesn't mean all his actions towards you will be insincere,sometimes he might be sincere.

    Usually people judge character of other people and label them sincere or insincere and adjust their guards towards them accordingly. Although this is a good test, alone it is far from sufficenf.

    The tests for the specific sincerity should first of all be your reason, you have to be warned that when dealing with people you have previously dubbed sincere, it is hard to reason in their actions specifically. Without any further ado, here are a few tests,
    • Motive. What gain should the person get in result of the action, is it enough to justify his efforts, or your past relation what so ever.
    • What could he gain from you discreetly? For eg if you are rich and suddenly a beautiful women says she loves for who you are, this field should light up in your brain saying that she could gain something discreetly or out of agreement which was love for love, and might be after your wealth.
    • Past Experiece. How has this person behaved towards you in the past, did he keep his word despite suffering a loss sometimes. In general where do guys stand.
    • General observation of character. How has this person behaved towards people other than you, how is his reputation in the society, what has he been involved in, and what is he doing.
    • Desperation. If someones desperate, he is suspicious, especially so if he fulfils a condition from above points somewhere.
    • Details of the deal. How has the person behaved while proposing the deal, did he pressure you, what points did he raise, how long did he speak for, did he address your issues or skim over them, how safe were his assurities or assurance or guarantee, what are his contacts.
     
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  7. Aegis21

    Aegis21 Hiki wanna be

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    I usually just go with my gut,it's usually right because I never really got into trouble because of other people
     
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    LeakLeaf Well-Known Member

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    Btw i was talking from experience not joking
     
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  9. SilverFeather

    SilverFeather [Seeker of Yuri]•[Likes tomboys]

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    Sincerity? Is it tasty?
     
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  10. AliceShiki

    AliceShiki 『Ms. Tree』『Magical Girl of Love and Justice』

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    ... Talk to them?

    Like, really, there is no way to know it, just talk to them and believe them if you wish.

    How do you know if your Significant Other cheated on you for example? You don't, it's a matter of trust.

    Trust them how much you think they deserve, that's about it.
     
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  11. youseiki

    youseiki 『Loves Glasses』

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    Damn... you're too innocent :blobReach: I hope you'll stay that way.
    her you go, an example of ntr-netorare
    [​IMG]
     
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  12. Dravileo

    Dravileo Imofever never end

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    Hahah, just in the past. Reality blow up your imagination. My friend was tsundere(he is a guy,not in anime tsundere is girl), i think tsundere period is around junior high school
     
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  13. Ivivivi

    Ivivivi Well-Known Member

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    This makes me think a lot thank you:aww::blobok:
     
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    Ivivivi Well-Known Member

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    Sadly Most of the time it doesn't work for me :blobconfounded:

    Yess!!! It taste like your favourite flavour :blobicecreamlove:

    Hmm... I'll try to figure it out :blobupset:

    Hahaha I'm not that innocent, just a little bit dumb and dense in relationship :blobsweat_2:


    Ooohh did he stop being tsundere?:blobfrowning:
     
  15. Ivivivi

    Ivivivi Well-Known Member

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    Oh I want to ask this, does tsundere need to involve love/like as in romance?
    If yes, how to avoid this situation?
    Hmm.. Let's say if I take care someone when I know they really need it (need as in necessary not what they want) and keep my words then that's it I don't prolong the action. Because it's not like I am that person parents, I'll do it to everyone I know. Is this action considered as tsundere? :blobwoah:
     
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    youseiki 『Loves Glasses』

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    nope, it's a neutral stance, a real tsundere action would be, you want to talk to that person, because you like that person and you are interested in that person, but you can't so you'll try to make some awkward excuses that ends up in denying your true objective and emotions... it's a neutral stance because you don't have time for them but you also want to help them
     
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    Ivivivi Well-Known Member

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    Hmm.. I see :aww:
     
  18. PotatoZero

    PotatoZero Well-known Potato

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    I was laughing at him, not with him,
    Really, 'It comes from anime therefore it does not exist'? Pfft
     
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  19. ZhaWarudo

    ZhaWarudo TOKI WO TOMARE!!!

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    I don't think tsunderes exist... none of the anime tropes do.
     
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  20. prongsjiisan

    prongsjiisan Apostle of Violence

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    Every people that approach you have some thing that they need from you. In my experience no one is true sincere. Lot of them are sincere to a certain degree. You must put extra careful to those who appear sincere to you.. Better safe than sorry.
     
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