Request how to read athmosfer when talking?

some times my friend say to me that i am insensitive to girl heart also when talking with every one . so how we can feel atmosfer when talking.

 

If you can still breathe, that's the atmosfer...

 

not that kind atmosfer though, hmm mood , or something hah i can't explain it

 

Generally thinking before you speak helps, but honestly I only open my mouth to change feet so can't really help much with reading the mood...

 

atmosphere?

 

It’s turkish

 

If you are not sure what to do just shrug.
It works on all occasions.
If you actually want to understand others then find context clues to predict what they want so you can proceed accordingly.

Its hard to do nowadays since people barely complete a sentence

 

wear a fedora, and start with "M'lady" when talking to a girls...



lol.

 

take interpersonal communciations

 

Empathy , put yourself in the other's shoes.
If you're gonna make heavy jokes you should really get along with that person , you can't make a joke about the weight of a person, you just met. And there's a lot of people that gets easily offended. You should take a look a your surroundings too. Are you in a bar , classroom or a house? depending of the place you can be loud , boisterous or quite.

 

Make eye-contact while talking and see their expression.

 

The feeling when the word is so obscure even the dictionary doesn't include it.

 

Eye contact, subtle gestures, facial expressions, are they using a lot of filler words(ya, uh-huh, mn, etc), physical contact with you or others, etc... pay attention to everything and you'll scratch the surface. No man has ever figured out a women's heart though so don't delve to deep

 

well. . .
if you want to read the atmosfer when talking to people due to your work. . .
then you need to study it up. .

well that depends on you, but it won't hurt if you show some care or delicacy when dealing with women,
oh and also do things depending on what type of culture you are dealing with,
it is fine to use ways that are know to people that are around you,
ex. doing dogeza on a place where grovelling on the ground is to show insult to people, something like that,
but welp if it's for women then ask your mom, if mom is not available then sister or aunt or grandma, start with your close ones,

if it still fails then leave.it all to faith some women likes to be treated rough, or some just want you to be frank,

be your self, unless you found someone worth changing for,

 

LOL,

I was just quipping. But on serious note, it's not something you can learn by talking to us. You need to talk to a girl friend. Stop talking during conversations and listen. Talk to your friend afterward, walk through your thoughts on the conversation. That's the only progress you can make

 

It they cant handle it then theyre not worth it.

 

remember no is just consent that isn't honest desu

 

Emotions and behavior of people are driven by hormones so you have to be able to sense which hormones are active in your conversation partner or company. Some animal can do it through their tongue called flehmen so i think you should try like them.

 

You can't..... Thats it

 

Be handsome and rich.

you don't need to read the atmosfer, the atmosfer will adapt to you