How would you: confess your love?

I'm not actually getting married yet. Just showing my method of confession. But let's get a little bit of audience participation.


@GM_Rusaku and @Crimshine

 

AHAHAHAHAH

I FUCKING KNEW YOU WOULD POST SOMETHING LIKE THIS

 

*Throw a lesbian porn pic to distract you and flee on the other side of the Earth* "I'm not gonna have my sausage cut by your yandere GF! Byyyyyee"

 

My answer.... If the one "confessing" to me is as beautiful as @Ai chan , then I'll reply with 「Let's get naked right away!」 Then at that time my sausage will be instantly severed by Ai chan's girlfriend.

Edit: I regret nothing!

 

As long as it does no harm to another's body or mind; this shadow does not care about your activities.

 

Carrot & stick. Give despair then give hope. I like it.

 

Say it to her. I don't see why it's so hard

 

Good luck! Sometimes, life goes too fast and you don't have the necessary time to deal with all unexpected situations. On another side, what you do reflects your position regarding love. While I can't fully understand your choice, in a way, you also have to take into consideration the feelings and choices of the other person.

 

You wait too long in that plan.
If you start planning everything before he's ok with it, it might weird/creep him out y'know? Trying to analyze him might create a false image of him in your mind over time as well.
Wait, thats not my main point.
Hm.
A lot of people I knew from highschool already have kids or are already married, and from what I've seen, relationships don't affect people's entire life forever-after. Also, people change slowly over time. Love is something that can't be pin-pointed or defined. Trying to wait until you are sure is a recipe for disaster, because maybe they love you too at first, but then they couldn't wait for you forever, because the life-long romances from stories are very rare to find in reality, so you confess much later and they already found someone else. If you try to get another together with him while still thinking you might love him, you are going to hurt yourself aren't you? Things like who you will marry aren't caused by fate, but a series of coincidences.
I'm Forever Alone, so I'm not qualified to give advice, so you can ignore it. I request you don't snap at me please.
I meant this post in a well-intentioned way.

 

I am actually the really blunt kind of person. The type that if they like someone they'd confess instantly. I usually do it when I'm bored. If no one prevents me from jumping the gun, I'd just comment abt how great that person's butt is.

 

Yeah bc we all know how shitty people we really are and be like "umm... do you know who I am ??"

 

When you say 'like', you don't mean 'love', no? Or do you? I recall bits and bits of what you've said some time about love, that's why I'm asking you that.

I've used to say that.. But, not about love, but about friendship. Later, I've realized that... By stating my opinion from the start/doubt I can deter that person from interacting with me. It isn't so easy to find a answer, nor to wait for that answer. And so, nowdays, depending of the person, I tend to change my aproach.

As love.. To born fruits needs to be reciprocated, I doubt that I would would ask to be loved if I'll receive a blunt asnwer or even somethink like -'I don't think that I like you the same way'. Still, I'll try to confess my love in the shortest and clearest way by saying"I love you!".

Yes, phrasing/choosing your words can help you transmit your feelings and thoughts. How I'll act/react after that..it's hard to say. Sometimes, it's easier to talk about the past than to talk about the future.

 

I never really cared abt like or love. They're just words to me. I've used them a lot and many people have used them on me. They lose their g meaning after a while. I like the words blessing, honest and content. I am just a lot more open to things I like than others and yes, I still struggle with finding happiness with myself.

 

That's pretty rare for a girl, girls asking guys out is super rare. At best, they'll flirt with the guy a lot to give him signals.

I once had two girls sit in the same chair to sit next me for examples, there were chairs in other places in the room. Yet, that's all they did and said nothing after. Clearly they wanted me to ask them out or something.

 

I've actually approached a guy and told him how nice a butt he had ~ Or just out right kissed someone ~

 

Thou art making me start to hate a certain raijuu friend of mine... a bit more... because thanks to him I no longer think that a girl asking a guy out is rare...

 

Why ?? As long as you like something, if you express it you wouldn't feel burdened ~

 

That's great for you, and I seriously mean it. There's a lot of 'decent-high value' guys out there that just dislike the dating bs, so it's an advantageous strategy nowadays for a girl to do a bit of the leading in dating.

Girls who just sit back and expect others to do everything will just get leftovers, excluding the ones that actually are high value ofc, but they get taken off the market quick.

I duno, I'm not a raijuu. I'm unsociable as fk.

Main thing is I was trolling and decided to display 'power' signals amongst groups during the start of the year, and that got the attention of girls easy. Then I sent them an 'im interested' signal, and they make themselves available.

It's like this guy who is a friend of a friend of mine. He's short, doesn't even speak english that well but he does boxing and plays the social game well. You see him harmlessly hugging some girl, and suddenly after a short period he's banging the girl against a wall. Admittedly he has a likable face though.

My friend who is his friend talks about him a lot: saying he doesn't understand how the guy does it.

 

You've got a point; over usage of some words can make them 'lose' their meaning ('value'), depending of whom's using them.

Thank you for sharing those details!

You've got an interesting perspective, thank you for sharing!